Do you agree? I would rather be with a man that makes money, even if he cheats, than with someone who is loyal but can't give me a comfortable life?

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Surely · Accepted Answer

I’ll agree with that statement. Not too many years ago. Most men earned more than women. Times have changed. Where more and more women make more than most men. Some what of a role reversal.

msc545 · Accepted Answer

Proving that once again a lot of women use men simply for money. The money is the point.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to give some spicy relationship insights, but the choice is totally yours! 😘 It's a matter of personal priorities, really. Some might see financial security as essential, while others prioritize loyalty and emotional connection. Just remember, cheating is a red flag 🚩 that can come with a lot of heartbreaks. A truly fulfilling relationship is about finding balance and what aligns with your values!💖

Finchie40 · Answer

If a woman marry’s a man just for his money , she is already cheating on the relationship , by lying and using him instead of actually loving him , he is blind to her selfishness and feels she loves him when really she doesn’t , So her using him could sadly push him to cheat or to leave her selfish using ass. Sadly selfish people find people that they can use and manipulate for their own selfish benefit. A wise man will not commit to a using selfish girl , if he does? He is a complete moron that’s just thinking with his Dick over anything else. Me let’s will not stay with a girl or even date a girl that is just after my wallet , if she puts her hand out to me expecting me to give her money , she is going to be left standing there all alone because my ass is walking the other way. People that lie are already cheating on the relationship by being selfish POS people

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

I am going to say that this is definitely not true of most women. There is certainly a specific type of woman who operates according to this logic. It's not very common though. It has to be a girl who values money over Love. It has to be a girl who can literally be bought. There aren't as many of those women as you might think.

Again, I'm not saying there are no women like this. But the vast majority would not marry an unfaithful man. This confuses the motivations of women by conflating "women" with some particular example. Just because someone knows some woman like this, doesn't mean it's 'a thing' most women would do. It's not.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you think it is a man's responsibility to provide everything for you in your life, I hope you find the cheater you are willing to accept. Experience will teach you what you apparently cannot learn any other way.

OneViewpoint · Answer

It's not true for all women. But I know a lot of women who chose the lifestyle over love. It doesn't generally work out well. She's a trophy wife. At some point, she ages and he finds a new, younger trophy. Now she's 40 something with a sense of entitlement to a certain lifestyle. So she rejects any guy who isn't a "10". Only those men aren't lining up for a 48 year old single mom. They are looking for the younger version of her without all the baggage. She ends up on antidepressants and popping the cork on a bottle of wine by 2PM every day.

I've had friend's wives come on to me. I've met these women on dating apps. It's not a pretty sight.

serious · Answer

Disagree. You should choose neither. In fact you should go for the best. A man who is super rich, runs businesses but at the same times leads a highly disciplined life, has no bad habits and most importantly has plenty of standards, self respect and is 1000% loyal to the woman he loves.

Means you should go for the best. Sure there will be some drawbacks even with this type of man but I am sure that can be managed and worked out.

At least this way you will get your comfortable luxurious life and at the same loyalty as well.

Otherwise it is best to stay single, work and make money for yourself and then enjoy your life with whatever savings you can make.

According to me the worst option is to go for a super rich man with no values, zero self respect and the one who has all the bad behavior in him.

DJB72 · Answer

You're setting yourself up for a truly miserable life. Guys don't want to just be a meal ticket. Real Men WANT commitment, family, the whole package.

If you've got a guy who's cheating on you and you stay for the money you may as well do Only Fans instead. You're accepting him cheating on you but staying for his money is basically doing that with only one customer anyway.

A guy who's broke now won't always be. With the right girl, he'll walk through hell to provide for her and protect her. It's how we're hardwired psychologically. And if you're there alongside him when he's starting out and you can actually communicate with him beyond the bedroom then he's going to be faithful to you AND

Kshilov · Answer

I don't need a cheater and I also don't need a man child who can't support his family. I would rather stay single at that point and make myself happy.

NoDecision · Answer

As we can see by all the divorces of wealthy people/stars, and Trump, money does not buy happiness or loyalty. Some women would agree with the man cheating in order to give her a live-it-up lifestyle. Others wouldn't. I am of the latter persuasion. For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and to lose his soul?

alice55 · Answer

Being with someone that cheat mean more than likely getting sti and him not caring about giving you any, it's not in any ways shape or forms a comfortable lifestyle.

I would rather be poor than with a cheater. I'm already poor and I don't mind there's technic to have good life even without money.

QuestionObsession · Answer

This is mostly correct yes. Women mostly want comfort and attention at the least and glamour as an addition. Mostly vain.

Guys are vain mostly to impress the women. Sycophants in their own right, sucking up to feminism and betraying fellow men.

It is what it is. Mostly.

RavVid · Answer

I think so. Men want a loyal woman because we want her children to be our children.

For a woman the risk is another woman can get some of a man's resources (money) that should be benefiting her and her children.

Shiprex · Answer

I agree this is perhaps a simplistic generalisation but I think it still holds true that men aren't at all bothered by what financial benefits a woman can bring as long as she is loyal while a woman will always tend to seek a higher earning man in spite of certain relationship faults.

Iron_Man · Answer

Women don’t wanna be with a man that’s gonna cheat. Yes a man would marry a poor woman if he loved her

patrick994 · Answer

It depends from woman to woman, I know some women who would get involved with a rich, career-minded man and accept being cheated on by him.

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

My dad's not "rich", but he's able to afford the bills. You don't need to have a lavish lifestyle to live, you only need the basic necessities. If you're that much of a bitch to say "I want ONLY a lavish lifestyle", you're not worth my time

Ironco · Answer

Todays young adults feel entitled to everything. This is their problem. If you want to go down that road, it's all on you.

The smart adults in the room can't and won't help you. You need to desperately learn better life choices. And do it young, life will only get worse for you.

But, I know. Who am I?

Tarifa · Answer

Such a relationship is bound to go wrong. Why would anyone want to be with someone if loyalty and trust is missing from the equation?

Gayuglycowardv3 · Answer

Rich alpha males are the prize but hardly any girl can lock him down because he has too many options. Nobody likes someone that is poor weak and ugly

SixFootSexy · Answer

I relish when materialistic girls self-filter out of my dating pool. Even if I had a billion dollars, I wouldn't want them around.

EzOwlz · Answer

If she only focuses on money then she's a glorified prostitute. They don't wanna admit but it's true.

Valdemort · Answer

My life isn't gonna be comfortable if he's out cheating, so no.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

That’s very practical, but doesn’t say much about your values. Still, you’re every guys’ fantasy

Professor-college · Answer

Mmm that way of thinking explains the large number of divorces and the many women who claim all men are the same inspite of how they look for them

Credentialmayhem · Answer

When you have children trust me that mentality won’t work

EmmaMary · Answer

No I most certainly don't agree.

genericname85 · Answer

i disagree. i wouldn't be with a man.

PaleDale · Answer

Cheats or just jerks off all the time

nawtee_me · Answer

No, that is why you work too

yotaman99 · Answer

My ex cheated on me a lot.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

*takes a seat*

DrPepper12 · Answer

Lol no.

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