Is cheating a red line?

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For me, cheating is a redline - the break in trust isn't something I would be able to get past, even if the cheater was suffering from some sort of compulsive disorder.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

It happened to me twice so they both earned the ex prefix right then and there, ex wife, ex girlfriend.  You made your choice now live with it. Neither one ended up staying with that person.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

If the relationship is good, one mistake should not end it. Everyone makes mistakes. I don't believe in the one-and-out. Except in rare situations, forgiveness is always possible.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Totally depends on the person and how and why it happened.. also if it happened within the first 5 years I would probably think it isn't worth saving..

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Yes.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I totally get where you're coming from! Cheating can be a major red flag and a real trust breaker. It's natural to feel that way; staying true to your boundaries shows self-respect and understanding of what's important to you. Relationships should be about trust, communication, and honesty, not shady secret episodes. If cheating doesn't fly for you, that's perfectly okay! Keep that love bubble secure, protect your heart, and never settle for anything less than you deserve! 💖🛡️

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If my partner cheats, i don’t want to listen to reasons or excuses: it’s over! End of story. Finis!

Vampirelover_12 · Answer

For a woman to cheat, which women can't, the man had failed her. For a man to cheat, his heart was in it. Women think with logic and men think with emotions. Explains why so many in here are petulant bitches and naggers.

Abbycado · Answer

Of course it is. Why is this even a question?

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I mean if it were one time and they felt remorseful and did things to regain that trust, I would give it a chance.. But that's only if we've been together for a long time..

Twalli · Answer

There's a chance I would take her back depending on what happened and how I discovered it.

Anonymous · Answer

Lets just say the last person to cheat on me got removed from my home naked, at gun point. Yes its a red line. I dont see cheaters as human. I see them as utter monsters who aren't capable of anything resembling human feeling or empathy.

CubaPirate · Answer

Red flag red line red light spells danger. It's a no go!

robocop666 · Answer

In law selling a product or service. If something is written or implied its a contract and can be returned. Cheating is written if your married or implied if your not. This is false advertising.

Lilly1979 · Answer

No for me if they hide their phones, place phone face down. They take calls everytime they live the room.

bddddd · Answer

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Babebytheshore85 · Answer

I agree and it's definitely a character flaw

serious · Answer

Yes of course it is always the red line.

Miristheiss · Answer

Any form of cheating? It is over.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Cheating is a one and done.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Trick question?

Anonymous · Answer

Open relatioship is say to go

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

Panthero · Answer

It sure is.

Eempriyanka · Answer

No..

Is cheating a red line?

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