If a man goes to a strip club while in a relationship, is it considered cheating?

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ShellyB · Accepted Answer

I would be pretty much OK with him going bc his friends want to go if nothing weird happens. I would prob make some jokes about it. If he wanted to go w me, I would also find that weird and I would not love it but I would be basically OK with it. I would be confused and not v happy if he went by himself even one time and I would really be concerned (might be relationship threatening) if he started going by himself frequently. But no, I would not consider it cheating, I mean, unless he actually did cheat there like if they went in a back room and did something more than stripping. JMO!

lilBigPotato · Accepted Answer

Not cheating but that doesn't mean it's a good idea. Assuming we talk about going secretly without her knowledge. If they go together or he asks for permission for a night out with his friends it's something different

DrPepper12 · Accepted Answer

If he does he's a fool & has questionable judgement.

SO pissed off? ✅

Throw $ away? ✅

Overpriced poorly made drinks? ✅

Hornier & unsatisfied on leaving? ✅

WTF would ANYONE go outside of a bachelorette or bachelor party? It's truly dumassery of the first order.

If a man goes to a strip club while in a relationship, is it considered cheating?

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AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

I'm sure the guy doesn't consider it cheating. It depends on what his SO thinks.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the age-old question! Whether it's cheating often depends on boundaries set within the relationship. Some people see it as a harmless night out, like going to see a rom-com with friends, while others feel like it’s a one-way ticket to Cheatersville. Communication with your partner is key—make sure you're both on the same page! Otherwise, you might end up ghosted faster than a bad Tinder date. 🕵️‍♂️👻 Keep the love alive and thrilling! 😊💞

Summeroflove · Answer

Well if he’s going there to get his rocks off then it’s cheating plain and simple.

Salaciousrouge · Answer

Depends on why you went? You looking for love or was it a bachelor party? You not getting something at home or was it just a hang out with a single freind while you lived vicariously for a moment?

Your intentions determine if its cheating, not her opinion (or his I suppose).

Ask yourself this question instead: if one of the hot strippers came on to you would you respond poorly? Would you consider the proposition? If yes to either then its either cheating or soon will be.

Talk with your other, and if that communication can't resolve or settle the issue then time to leave. One or both of you have or soon will vacated the relationship. Or you'll both end up miserable and feeling trapped.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the context.

Let’s say I’m free after work and a colleague invites me out to the bar and doesn’t mention it’s a strip club. As long as I don’t hide it and come clean about the details then yeah not cheating.

If your partner explicitly doesn’t like you staring at other women especially strippers, hookers, Playboy Magazine Models / Lingerie Catalog Models then I would say sneaking off to the strip club is cheating without consulting her first.

While given permission / know your partner won’t be upset over a little ‘show’ and drinkin’ with the boys then not cheating unless you do something “extra” like flirting, trying to get sexual favors, and got a lap dance or tried to hand her your number then I would say CHEATING!!!

Depends on the circumstance, partner, and purpose behind it.

McLlovin · Answer

I consider it cheating. Im old school. Why dont 747 pilots smoke weed before flying thousands of people? Weed in general isn’t considered bad. It’s because any form of compromise in the pilots decision ability will put everyone in danger. You think you can embrace fire and not get burned?

KennethNoisewater · Answer

I don’t think going to a strip club is cheating. I do think if you hide that fact that you going or jut gone, that’s an issue. If you’re a dude that likes going to strip clubs and you’re dating someone who doesn’t agree, just break up. You should have to/need to/ want to lie to your partner.

kinkynicci · Answer

I personally don't think so, there is no sex involved, no kissing, and minimal skin to skin contact even

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

No, not if he’s the job site foremen and he’s just taking out the crew or going out with the bosses, and of course Mexican.

who tf goes to strip clubs except Sex Offenders and meth dealers and meth heads?

NoDecision · Answer

I would consider it so. But that's just my opinion.

slatyb · Answer

That's between him and his partner. I very rarely go to strip clubs, but still I wouldn't be with someone who considered it cheating.

Nikki1989 · Answer

More or less, yes, but watch this space. A man is bound to say it is fine for men to watch strippers, but not women.

Lliam · Answer

Not if he didn't do anything but have some drinks and watch the show.

Ironic_Method · Answer

That's up to the partner, which should be discussed beforehand. Cheating is whatever your partner considers cheating.

WonderingManII · Answer

Does the girl think of it as lust, and lust is the same as having sex in your brain with someone other than her?

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Hell to the No! Unless it was an illegal one and some sort of prostitution went down.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's not cheating, but it could easily be seen as disrespectful enough to be cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

If a woman goes to a male strip club while in a relationship is it cheating?

loveyouoak · Answer

Absolutely not. As long as he doesn't get close to the opposite sex, he can go wherever he wants.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If his partner considers it so. The opinions of others are irrelevant.

clampfan101 · Answer

I say yes, personally. And same goes for the woman in the relationship, of course.

BDRick · Answer

I consider cheating anything that you don’t want your other knowing about, So if it fits the buck…

blackeagle007 · Answer

We’re allowed to go. But I wouldn’t like it if women went to see guys dance

İamsosad · Answer

Yes of course , i really hate this. I am so jealous person

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Not if she's okay with it

thegreenyogi · Answer

No but it would be a massive red flag for me.

MrChinaski · Answer

It's not cheating

Anonymous · Answer

Only if he gets a lap dance

Sluttt · Answer

Shit doing shit. Nothing strange

uncutgem · Answer

no its not cheating

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Not if he tells her he's going

straightmax12 · Answer

No, it isn't cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes , I’d leave him asap.

alice55 · Answer

it's cheating

tzdc21 · Answer

Yes it is.

Wise4myage · Answer

Not cheating.

Grond21 · Answer

Yes.

Heusus · Answer

Lmao of course not

Anonymous · Answer

For sure no

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