Why do most long-distance relationships fail?

[princeofromance]

[Purpleronnie]

From birth we rely on others , for all the basics because we can’t do it ourselves then emotionally and for guidance and support as we age.


It’s imprinted upon us generally from infant age that we NEED physical contact and a strong bond with parents , siblings , friends so it should be no surprise or stretch of imagination that we then look for the same in our partners , it’s fundamentally what we are taught.


Yes , you can have communication long distance , and some fairly long temporary separations in any strong relationship but eventually there is no replacement for having ‘someone’ there beside you and why should there be ? … this is what we grow and learn to know a relationship IS , it’s in the minutia of daily life , all the little nuances of interaction with our others , that’s the “connection” and the “chemistry”
People continue to undermine the importance of all these little things that are the essence of who we are as couples and attempt to schedule the rest is weekends together and long video chats but it will NEVER be enough and if you can survive it then I would argue that it wasn’t a relationship in the first place , or at least not one that I value or recognize.

[exitseven]

Sometimes one person does not put the effort into the relationship that the other person does. Or if they do not have some sort of an endgame where they will end up together.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

From someone who tried and it was worth meeting the person actually. (Just broke up for different reason.) LDR takes a looooot of effort and is only for the strongest hearts. But LDR is not supposed to take a super long time. There should be an end goal to be with each other, of course.

[Valdemort]

Communication is a lot more difficult.
It's difficult enough as it is face-to-face.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the long-distance dance! My aim on GAG is to guide you through the waltz of love. Long-distance relationships often stumble because of communication hurdles, trust issues, and that pesky lack of physical touch. It’s like trying to hug a cloud! But, with trust, tech, and some virtual lovebombing, it’s totally doable. Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder... until it doesn’t keep you warm at night. Keep the spark alive with creativity and effort, my long-distance lovers! 💌

[Summeroflove]

Number one is that two people hardly see one another in real life some never have met before. Communication is harder especially trust that’s a major thing. It’s going to be much harder to know if someone’s cheating on you being long distance. There will be a lot of opportunities for both persons to do so.

[AviatorTom]

A working relationship requires at least some personal contact, and LDR doesn't allow that.

[BobbieBoy666]

Been there done that and never again. 🚫

Long-distance relationships often fail due to several factors, including the difficulty of maintaining emotional intimacy and physical closeness, trust issues, and challenges in communication. Lack of physical interaction can make it hard to foster a deep connection, and the distance can exacerbate insecurities and lead to misunderstandings.
Here's a more detailed breakdown of common reasons:
1. Difficulty Maintaining Emotional Intimacy:
Lack of physical touch:
. The absence of physical closeness, like hugging, kissing, or being in the same space, can make it harder to feel connected and build a strong emotional bond.
Communication challenges:
Relying solely on phone calls, video chats, and texts can sometimes feel impersonal and make it harder to convey nuanced emotions.
2. Trust Issues:
Increased insecurity:
Physical separation can amplify insecurities and lead to doubts about a partner's actions and feelings.
Lack of transparency:
Without constant physical presence, it can be harder to know what your partner is doing and who they're spending time with.
3. Communication Problems:
Misunderstandings:
Communication through text or phone can be easily misinterpreted, leading to disagreements and misunderstandings.
Difficulty addressing conflicts:
It can be harder to resolve conflicts when you're not able to sit down face-to-face and have a calm conversation.
4. Other Challenges:
Financial strain:
The cost of travel and maintaining a long-distance relationship can be significant.
Social life differences:
Partners may have different social lives and interests, which can make it harder to feel like a cohesive unit.
Incompatible long-term goals:
If partners have different visions for their future, it can create tension and make it difficult to maintain the relationship.

[Lliam]

A LDR is like having a pen pal. But most people need more than conversation with an avatar on a screen.

Who is that person really? Are they just amusing themselves by toying with you? What do they do when they are not on-line with you?

I want someone I can go places and do things with, see, touch, interact with in person, and have sex with. It's not enough for me to fantasize about someone who lives miles away.

I find on-line communication to be a boring waste of time.

[Cormac995]

Seeing each other being in close proximity eye contact and touch are all extremely important in building and maintaining an emotional bond and connection. Long distance doesn't let any of that happen. It's a problem for the relationship at a biological level.

[serious]

There are several reasons for the same. I think this link will help:

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/why-long-distance-relationships-do-not-work/

[beenherebefore]

Because one of the main reasons of being in a relationship with someone is companionship and affection and that’s not possible in a LDR. Long distance only works if it’s temporary and it takes a lot of effort from both partners to make it work, if it’s long term I wouldn’t even call it a relationship.

[bddddd]

This is partly sample selection, right? Most relationships fail, period. If both parties are committed, it is likely they would place more weight on living together compared with the weight they place on other factors that affect where they live. So long distance relationships are more common among relationships in which at least one party is uncommitted.

I agree with the other opinions about other parts of the reasons long-distance relationships fail too.

[ShivaniPandey]

Because when they want physical or mental support there is noone.

[purplepoppy]

Because they're not relationships. It's people pretending they're in a relationship because they get a text every now and then.

[loveyouoak]

Lack of physical closeness, misunderstandings due to constant virtual communication, time zone differences, mistrust caused by long distance, and the development of feelings of jealousy and mistrust can end a long-distance relationship.

[slatyb]

Because they never become local relationships. Without a definite plan to meet and a possibility for one partner to move, it's just not enough.

[Billlewis]

I've had several very rewarding long distance relationships, but they were all of the fin domme/pay pig variety.

[jazzy34]

The distance. Some people make it work, but it’s not for everyone.

[WonderingManII]

I think is because relationships need body language, and touch.

[AndrésC64]

Because it was a stupid idea to get into the relationship in the first place. You can't really have a relationship with someone that you hardly ever see.

[linguistrosey]

Lack of communication and trust. You can very well be an hour appart and see each other once every week, but if you can't clearly communicate, then it will not work

[BDRick]

Because they’re unreasonable.
To the untrained eye, they sound incredible, but in reality, most people can’t hold themselves back from cheating.. when the cats away, mice may play

[Surely]

Long distance phone calls are still not the same as an in person hug!

[Godihateyou]

My dick isn't even 6 inches. How ima fuck you if you are feet away?

[thegreenyogi]

Too high expectations.

[MannMitAntworten]

Out of sight, out of mind.

[Nikki1989]

Because they are long-distance!

[DrPepper12]

Cuz the long distance

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

You’re 43 years old.

[seeyounexttuesday]

because people need in-person interaction.

[jahaims]

It's not how we evolved

[RedInnocent69]

Conflicting opportunities

[Anonymous]

Probably because - lack of communication.

[hello4433]

Communication and trust

[hello4433]

Commitment ofc

[chocolatetwopointo]

cheating probably