How can I deal with my jealous feelings?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is on a trip for a class and he is sleeping in a cabin room with 3 other women for a few nights. They are in the same room because they’re working in the same group. I have always had problems with feeling jealous and nervous with my partners because I have been cheated on in the past. This situation is sending me over the edge and I want to find ways to feel calm.

I had a discussion with my boyfriend (before this situation) about my jealousy and he told me he would break up with me if I continued being insecure and jealous. I also want to fix this in myself.

He is kind and loyal but my anxiety gets in the way of enjoying our relationship. I’m wondering if there are ways to deal with these feelings and find peace so that I don’t lose my relationship (or my mind haha).

[Finchie40]

Find yourself a better boyfriend that actually wears your shoes the same way he wants you wearing his , if the tables were turned and you were staying in a cabin with 3 guys’ he would be having a shit. You aren’t being insecure , you are being disrespected in your relationship , that fact that he said you are being insecure is a huge Red Flag that you shouldn’t ignore , it just proves that he is a selfish POS person that only cares about himself , so if you want to stay in a relationship with someone like that , best of luck to you because you will never be happy and content in that relationship , you will just have SUCKER written on your head without realizing it , but the truth is you are wasting your time on someone that only thinks of themselves, that doesn’t consider your feelings whatsoever. I can’t tell you what to do , it’s your life and your choice , but me personally would walk the other way and say best of luck to you , and go find myself a girl that actually cares about my feelings , that wears my shoes the same way she wants me wearing hers. It has nothing to do with insecurities, it comes down to respect for each other. Trust me there are better people out there , that actually give the same way they want to receive , that wear your shoes the same way they want you to wear theirs, don’t waste your time on selfish people period. ’someone that truly loves and cares about you will make you their top priority , someone that doesn’t truly love or care about you will just make you a convenience, Your boyfriend just likes the convenience of you because he only thinks of himself. Wipe that Sucker off your head girl and dump his ass and you will find someone way better than that shit

[jahaims]

You get your self worth from the wrong sources so you are insecure

[Anonymous]

He’s going on a vacation with several women and is mad at oh for being insecure? Yeah say you’re going on one with several men I’d bet that would change 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[AI Opinion]

Ah, jealousy, the unwanted third wheel in many relationships! 😅 Remember, you’re not alone in feeling this. You've taken the first step by acknowledging it, and that's huge! Trust is key, darling. Try indulging in self-care and mindfulness practices - might chill those anxiety vibes. Communication helps too, but in this case, self-trust is just as crucial. Your boy sounds like a keeper, but remember, security should start within you! Time, lovebombing yourself, and little faith will certainly work wonders. 🌟 Stay fabulous and strong! 💪