Why I feel jealous and how can I overcome it?

[Anonymous]

I get jealous if there's another beautiful woman in the same room with my man. I don't know why. I just feel like something burning inside me as if he would not find me pretty anymore. (although that could not be true) I don't say anything or start a fight. I just keep it inside. But I don't want to feel that way anymore. How can I overcome it? It really makes me sad and makes my trust issues worse..

[20yearsolder]

It's your own insecurities, you think that she's better than you, that she's going to steal your man. Continue to do that and you will push your man away. I can guarantee you that that shit gets old really quick. Always remember that he picked you, he's dating you not the other woman in the room.

[Guy13]

I think that is a normal reaction.

[Guy13]

I get those urges too but I have to back off and trust her. This is life... and if she cheats then she cheats and I could have never done anything about it. I try not to let it show... to overact or even react at all. Showing distrust is likely to bring things to an end quicker. I think everyone is insecure but keeping it from negatively affecting both our friendships and girlfriend relationship TAKES Effort. Be careful not to blow it up... Good luck !!!

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Guy13]

👍👍

[Anonymous]

There could be a few reasons for that. Like if you’ve been hurt in the past, or maybe an ex left you for someone, etc. Whatever the cause, you just have to work on your self confidence and heal from your past.