Why would my boyfriend be on viagra at 30?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for a 1 year now. I have known he is ok viagra for 4 months of the relationship…… but he doesn’t know. I have asked him twice if he is on anything g I’m know aware of due to repeated UTIS and more. I’m so scared to confront him, how he will react, and so much more. Do I have a right to be upset that he lied to my face twice?

[DishLady]

It seems that you're not concerned so much that he uses viagra (which some guys use so they can keep it up for a gal for more then 5-10 minutes of active playtime). You're concerned about your UTIs. Tell him to stop it now because your system can't handle it on a daily (or weekly or however many times you shag that you have UTI issues) basis.

You, meanwhile, need to hydrate more and have a better postcoital maintenance routine, missy. The guy's little VIP is most likely not gonna be what you'd like without the viagra... or at least he doesn't think it will be.

[Finchie40]

The Viagra isn’t giving you UTI’s , UTI’s come from not being clean down there or you are having an allergic reaction to his penis. You shouldn’t be upset about him taking Viagra , he is taking Viagra because he probably is experiencing issues with maintaining erections , he might have ED, which he should go see a doctor about , ED can be caused by a lot of things , like stress, or his diet , or if he smokes or drinks ,, but overall he is taking Viagra so he can make sure he pleases you , Most people think Viagra just magically makes a penis hard , which is not the case at all, Viagra only works when he is in the mood or turned on. I still take Viagra on occasion because I ended up getting ED , it’s very common for guys’ to get at any age. When my doctor prescribed me Viagra I was bummed out until he explained to me how Viagra works , so don’t be upset about him taking Viagra for you , it only works when he is on the mood and turned on.

[Stevepro68]

Well Viagra can be obtained without a true full medical assessment. It is rare but not impossible for a male at 30 to have ED due to physiologic not psychological reasons. More commonly it is a crutch for a anxiety issue related ED. A. Maladaptive behavior for his anxiety. Probably has zero to do with you excepts it's embarrassing at that age. If he has a history of metabolic issues then the physical one is likely. If he's healthy except for this, then he really needs a full assessment from a qualified provider gave to face not some online dispensary. In either case taking offense and making him feel guilty doesn't help and has no real reflection on your desirability.

[_Maya_]

Viagra would have nothing to do with a urinary tract infection. Are you as old as you claim to be? I only ask because the majority of women would know that it wouldn't cause that. That's like saying my boyfriend took Tylenol and then saying it was the cause of my UTI instead of my poor hygiene habits. As for whether he should tell you or not... yes he should. Why he is on it is a whole other story and perhaps you should ask him. I find this little story you have hard to believe but if true then confront him about it. He had to get a doctor's prescription for that medication so there has to be an underlying problem. It could be any number of things and no one on this site is qualified to answer that question not knowing his medical history.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating relationships is my jam, and here's a spicy tidbit for ya! Your boyfriend's on Viagra at 30? Well, he might be dealing with some self-esteem issues or health concerns he hasn’t opened up about. 🚀 You absolutely have the right to feel upset—trust and transparency are essential in falling in love. Approach the topic with love and understanding rather than going into full red-flag alert mode. Constructive communication can work wonders, my friend! 💕 If you’re feeling concerned, maybe a heart-to-heart chat can unravel the mystery! 🎭🤔

[Nikki1989]

Some men need it younger than that.

The sexual function of most men is like a dodgy used car that needs constant servicing to keep working.

[EmmaMary]

It's certainly not a good way for your relationship to flourish.

[glennos89]

If you want to confront him about it then do it. You are in your right to let him know that lying isn't okay. Be before you do that, think it through because the reason that he was lying to you about it was probably because of shame.

[Alex-Snow]

Is he using it every time you have sex? Maybe try some spontaneous sex where he does not have time to use it and see if he gets hard? Does he use it when you give him a bj or hj? Does he need it when he jerks off?

[Anonymous]

Internet porn has ramped up ED to the point that even guys in their 20s are getting it. Or at least that is what I keep hearing from the news. I haven't had this problem yet; and I have been looking at internet porn since the internet started. Maybe it is because I don't look at it all day everyday; but more of a weekend wanker.

[chrissykerdock]

give him surprise blowjobs to see if he has a problem

[Anonymous]

Problems getting aroused or staying hard due to a health or anxiety issue. Seeing more than one woman. Wants stronger harder elections.

[seeyounexttuesday]

him taking viagra isn't giving you UTIs, lol.

[Anonymous]

I'd assume that he has E. D. type problems that may not be of his choosing or causing. But what I would suggest is to stay away from pharmaceuticals and use something natural and healthy

[FreyaRed]

His PP defect

[_Maya_]

Lmao

[Pterodon]

At his age and can’t get it up? Lol. What a loser

[Anonymous]

Maybe he lacks self-confidence?