If you’re in love with someone else at the moment, would you able to leave your spouse and kids for your lover? Would it be a hard or easy decision?

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I think I would be able to leave my husband and kids for my lover. They are grown now and don’t need me anymore.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I bet you think doing that is in your best interest. Tho if you haven't tried everything to fix the marriage you are already in, I think you will regret it later on. I think leaving would feel easy cuz you think you are in love but when that relationship fails. Then you aren't able to see your kids as often and you are lonely its going to hurt.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

What's up with all these questions today about having feelings for someone or being faithful while in a committed relationship? 😅 You're catching feelings for someone?

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Kids are the tough thing. They didn't ask to be caught up in drama. And you have an obligation as a parent to raise them. Once the kids were launched, I left to go look for that lover. Haven't found her yet. Had fun looking though. And ran into a LOT of married women who are in the same boat I was in.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If you are in love with someone else , then yes end it with your spouse so he can go find true love as well , and you go be with the one you love , specious already cheated on your husband with this other guy

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

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Rei13 · Answer

If you’re catching feelings for someone outside of your relationship then there is probably something missing in your current one. You should focus on fixing that versus getting into a new relationship

WhitneySnow · Answer

No, I wouldn’t. But I feel like you love your lover more than your husband. And I can see your point about your kids being old enough to make it without you. Do you mean like college age?

Miristheiss · Answer

Only a horrible, no good spouse could. They are worthless because they are in love with someone else. You only fall in love by spending too much time with someone they shouldn't have.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

The luxury some people have to live life by whim and damning all in their wake because it feels good. There will still be damage but at least you will momentarily feel great until he too moves on with another. He will.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If something is seriously lacking in your current relationship, you should constantly try to improve the situation.

sawno · Answer

Of course not, i'd not let it get to that point to begin with. If I knew you posted this as your partner i'd leave you though.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I cannot be in love with someone if i'm married because all my love would be for my wife forever! I'm not an animal to destroy my family just for loving someone else! Plus my love goes only one way!

exitseven · Answer

I don;t know. How do you blow up something that you worked on for a long time?

HelpfulGirlll · Answer

Prioritizing your happiness shouldn't come at the expense of others' well-being.

Bricealan · Answer

@thelovelywoman I don't know, difficult question

glennos89 · Answer

Im glad your not my husband. Hopefully for you it doesn't backfire in the longterm

Staximus · Answer

If the marriage wasn't working, I would get a divorce before looking to fuck around with another woman

Lillyana32 · Answer

It’s probably best you do leave him at that point. It’s pointless hurting him if your not fully there… when he could recover quicker knowing it’s not been for as long (your new lover that is)

Ironic_Method · Answer

Sounds like you should leave your husband if you're not in love with him.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

That’s gotta be hard, no matter what. I mean, abandoning your kids? Even if the new pussy is the bomb

Anonymous · Answer

No. I cannot imagine leaving my husband for another.  But then, I love my husband, so that thought is laughable.

jahaims · Answer

I wouldn't be in love with someone else. I'm not trash

Anonymous · Answer

Being in love with someone else while being in a relationship is cheating.

krin_m · Answer

It really depends on the situation. Each one is different.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm single, always have been, but if I was married, I would never have a lover.

Anonymous · Answer

I would never want her to leave her kids for me. If she chose to leave her husband that would be different but not her kids her kids come first to her

Anonymous · Answer

I've never really been in love with anyone. And I would never leave my wife for anyone else

MrChinaski · Answer

Hard, But takeable.

wkhan_87 · Answer

It is selfishness

If you’re in love with someone else at the moment, would you able to leave your spouse and kids for your lover? Would it be a hard or easy decision?

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