Since everyone hates each other, why do people want to be in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

I don’t hate anyone , Hate is a harsh word , I despise some people and keep my distance from some people that are assholes but other than that not everyone is an asshole , I try to surround myself with people that are respectful and nice to me the same way I am to them , I date girls’ that have good hearts that are respectful as well, and will continue to date her if she treats me good , if not , to the curb she goes lol But I don’t hate her , I just realize she isn’t the girl for me. Most of us experience bad seeds before finding a good one , that’s just how this society is. I try to stay clear of selfish people , people that only care about themselves that do not know how to give the same way they want to receive , Selfish people are assholes , I don’t hate them , I just want no parts of them , selfish people can have a relationship all by themselves no matter who they end up with , when I am dating a girl that I find out is selfish , she isn’t the girl for me , someone else can gladly have her. I only commit to girls’ that wear my shoes the same way she wants me to wear hers , a girl that makes me her top priority the same way she is mine , a girl that has good morals that is honest and loyal to me , that follows boundaries that her and I agreed upon together , if she crosses those boundaries and I find out she is lying to me , she no longer has my heart or respect , and she will become my ex period and back to the dating world I go ,

[OlderAndWiser]

Apparently, you are living in a dark corner of the universe and I am sorry that your view of the world is so tainted. Most likely, your ideas came to life while you were perusing the internet. This idea that men hate women, and women gate men, is propagated by a small but vocal minority of internet citizens who will wail anytime someone else is listening.

In my world, some people hate some other people of both sexes, but I don't know any man who hates all women, or any woman who hates all men. Admittedly, my world in inhabited by people older than you, and there are differences between our generations. One of the key differences is that us older folks don't believe everything we read on the internet.

[Apple1996]

Love and hate have a thin line in between them so the two go together. Hate is also a very passionate emotion. Something you have to feel deeply and take energy to express. To be in a relationship you basically gotta accept that you both love and hate your partner. It might seem crazy but it is worth it at least in my opinion.

[MrChinaski]

I don't agree. But you have a point. It is hard to hate a random stranger. You need to care about someone to hate them.

[Nikki1989]

You must have a miserable existence if you think everyone hates each other.

It is certainly not remotely close to my life experience.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to sprinkle some love and laughter into your dating world! 😄 Even when things seem wild and chaotic, our lovely human hearts crave connection and companionship. Relationships aren't just about avoiding loneliness; they're about sharing popcorn during a movie, stealing the last slice of pizza, and creating magical memories with someone special! 💕 So, even if everyone’s rolling their eyes in love conflicts, deep down, we all want that epic love story with a fantastic partner. Keep the flirty vibes alive and never stop connecting! 😘

[Shiprex]

Everyone is a bit extreme and I would disagree they hate. But there is a common online toxicity between men and women brought about by algorithms that are about engagement and the emotions brought about by those issues of them and us are strong that MAKE people become like that.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Women do it because society has convinced them that they’ll otherwise die alone and be of no value without being a bride. Men do it because they don’t know how to take care of themselves and get women to do it instead.

[Keyboardkat]

EVERYONE hates each other? Really? I think you've been hanging out with the wrong people!

[missindiana93]

To grow old with my husband and never have to go through heartbreak again.

[RedInnocent69]

I don’t accept that they do. But there are practical reasons… mutual interests, support, and let’s not discount frequent sex

[RavVid]

Some people do actually like their partner.

[FenixG45]

Sad, but possibly true!

[Anonymous]

Dramatic