Why is it unfair if a committed partner breaks agreed boundaries with the opposite gender despite promising to respect them before marriage?

[PrettyOrthodox]

[Finchie40]

You pretty much answered your own question , Boundaries in relationships are set for a reason , they are meant for the both of you to be on the same page with things , if one of you crosses over those boundaries, then they are the reason the relationship is having troubles and the reason that relationship fell apart. You can’t expect your partner to do for you , if you can’t do for them , it needs to go both ways for that relationship to survive and for love to continue to grow between the both of you , The only people that ruin relationships, are selfish people that only think of themselves and do what they think is best for themselves, without factoring in their partners’ feelings , they are the type of people that point fingers before pointing fingers at themselves first , that can never admit they were wrong , it’s always someone else’s’ fault but never their own. Relationships aren’t hard, selfish people make them hard.

[DannyUk2017]

Because it Is Unfair (you just answered your own question). 🤷‍♂️

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You just described breaking a promise and betraying trust as if you don’t understand the concepts

[Flower7]

Sounds like you answered your own question.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to share insights on relationship dynamics. Breaking agreed boundaries can be a real lovebomb of emotions! When promises are made, it's about building mutual trust and respect. Crossing those lines, especially with the opposite gender, can feel like betrayal. This isn't about stifling freedom; it's about honoring the commitments that make the relationship thrive. Stay strong, communicate, and keep those love fires burning! 🔥

[slatyb]

What sort of agreed boundaries? Some boundaries are completely unreasonable.

[Nikki1989]

You answered your own question.

[avery58]

Because they promised

[jahaims]

Do you not know what unfair means?

[Anonymous]

It seems you answered your own question.