What unreasonable pressures do you think the opposite sex puts on you when dating or in relationships, and why do you believe they are unreasonable?

[HawkPerception]

[ananias55]

I used to date but I've broken away from it because I realized how much a girl prefers a guy to be stoic. They expect us to never express ourselves and ultimately make the relationship all about her. My last relationship ended because I started expressing myself and setting boundaries. That gave her the 'ick' and she slowed down with acts of affection.

Basically, nowadays, some girls want us guys to be robots. And I was stoic, not because I wanted to be. But because I was taught my entire life that my emotions didn't matter, only my actions did. Once I broke away from that mindset my true self started emerging but my ex hated it. And its what lead to our break up.

Nowadays I just stick to fwbs. They give the same (sometimes more) affection than girls in a relationship. Honestly. Shifting to fwbs and avoiding relationships has healed me, it's way better for my mental health and overall my sex life is thriving.

[DonaldDarko]

They're not unreasonable just crude and primitive. Human sexuality is brutal and savage.

[SueShe]

The pressure to always have to perform, even when you don't feel like fornicating.

Men in general are slaves of their testosterone and as such, put immense pressure on women to copulate whenever their testosterone dictates it. Men are unable to resist because they don't want to resist and the women in general will have to pay for the consequences of that slavery.

Multiple monthly fornication sessions without really asking for the opinion of the victim are the result of that slavery.

That is an unbearable pressure and a lot of women are not in a position to oppose because of the potential physical violence they would be subjected to by the men.

[ananias55]

You can always say no. I have several fwbs and when they dont feel up to it. I dont pressure them. Kinda helps that I have a few girls on the backburner, but even so. If she's not on her knees begging for it. Then what's the point?

[DishLady]

When a guy expects to be “fully in control” and thinks something is dismissed when he dismisses it… It puts undue pressure on an intelligent woman and dehumanizes and objectifies her incredibly.

[queenofcardio]

Just because I'm great at something such as cooking or any other similar task, I shouldn't be pressured to show you right away

[chrissykerdock]

to perform oral sex

[biraileeşkadını]

There is no flirting in love.