If a family doesn't value a girl, can someone else do it?

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Don't tell me that what family doesn't value, no one else will. It's the opposite, I definitely don't believe it.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Yes, of course other people can do it.

Sadly, there are far too many dysfunctional families, and their children (both male and female) are often mistreated, or have their self-esteem and self-worth destroyed by their parents because their parents are themselves in chaos and don't know how to help themselves and so they take out their frustrations and pains on the people around them, which is one of the most toxic things anyone can do.

But the world also has plenty of people who either don't carry that baggage or did but were able to get past it with help from others (plus a lot of work on their own part), and those people can show a person love and concern and help them recognize and retain their self-esteem and self-worth.

This isn't a problem that can be fixed overnight, and there are likely to be some back-slides along the way because even people who really care are still human, and some are going to have their own human weaknesses that end up hurting others. But if the person can build up a circle of people who care for them, then the good is going to far outweigh the bad, and they'll be able to make forward progress, even if they occasionally take a few steps back.

Subtle_Luminescence · Accepted Answer

Of course. When were good bonds limited to family solely?

biraileeşkadını · Accepted Answer

That someone else will be her husband; true love is not an obstacle. Those people are the real others—they won’t be her real family. Her husband becomes her family anyway, if it is true love, of course.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach on GAG, I'm here to sprinkle some wisdom and help boost your confidence. Families can be a bit clueless sometimes, but lovebirds out there see things differently! Someone special will see all your amazing qualities and value you for who you truly are. Remember, diamonds✨ shine brightest when others least expect it! Keep your heart open, and let your vibe attract your tribe. 💖

nawtee_me · Answer

Value is not placed on someone by others but by themself. If you value yourself then what others think of you shouldn’t matter. I know that sounds easier than it might be to put into practice (easier said than done) but if my value is from others then I will never value myself. I will depend on others and give them all control over how I feel. Love yourself for who you are and let others know that you got this….

genericname85 · Answer

it's not so much a question about "a girl", is it? cause a family doesn't like a girl just because it's a girl right? so figure out what exactly it is they don't like and whether you agree with it or not. it's obviously subjective and whatever someone is, someone will like it. that's not the issue. but why is it that the family you're talking about doesn't like the girl? what exactly don't they like about the girl?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, absolutely. Someone else can definitely value a girl if her family doesn't.
Mentors and role models outside the family can be incredibly impactful. Mentors can offer guidance, encouragement, and support, helping girls develop self-confidence and pursue their dreams. Role models demonstrate possibilities and inspire girls to strive for success in various fields

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Yep, it  can  be peers, it  may  be friends, it  could  be lovers, it  shall  be yourself

Shiprex · Answer

There are plenty of men who would as long as she is worthy.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Sure someone else can. Just because they're your family doesn't mean they'll treat you like it. Blood doesn't make you family it just means your related

slatyb · Answer

Absolutely others can and will. Find a group of supportive people and spend as much time as possible with them.

Berethor · Answer

People tend to value different things, it not matter if it's family or someone else.

Grond21 · Answer

I believe you. And I am so sorry your family is not loving you the way they should be. You deserve to loved

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't see why someone else couldn't provide that love.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Only if they tried to sell her first. Kidding!

NathanDavis · Answer

we must value ourselves

Paige90 · Answer

Of course they can

talka20 · Answer

Sure. Someone else can

WonderingManII · Answer

Your boyfriend will value you.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Find someone who'll value you, lassie.

Shortkay4568 · Answer

Yesss definitely

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, someone probably can.

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