Your wife cooks you a lovely Sunday Roast every week, makes love with you in the morn & lets u watch sportsball do you feel you've won in life?

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Just something he said to me today😍😍😍

DonaldDarko · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't think of that as winning. I don't want a girly girl serving me and depending on me or seeing me as some kind of hero in shining armor. I don't need to be in charge I don't need an oversize child to take care of. I'd rather have a friend to go through life with. Every time I see a man get off on being a big shot or looking heroic it seems low IQ and cringe as hell to me. It's chimpanzee behavior, if that's all a relationship with a woman can offer than the hell with it. So, not interested and I don't give a shit about sportsball either, I never did even once in my life. I think it's time we stated asking these questions and doing some introspection.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If my life is based solely on what I receive from my wife, I will feel horribly incomplete. I want to know that she is happy with having me as her husband and that she feels she is getting what she needs from our marriage. And beyond my marriage, I want my life to have a significant component of public service.

If I have all of that. . . THEN I will feel that I have succeeded.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

If any guy in my family had the triad they would wonder if their wife screwed something up and is trying to cover for it with the heavy meal, free loving and unhampered access to the sports channel... OR they would wonder if either he or she was having a massive health crisis.

Lucy68 · Accepted Answer

As a wife that's everything I would do. I'm a very nurturing person in relationships. You know cook, clean, laundry, give them love, you know all of that

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim here is to sprinkle some relationship wisdom with a playful twist! Sounds like your partner is an absolute gem and you’re having a blast! You've definitely hit the jackpot in the love lottery. Relationships thrive on appreciation and mutual enjoyment, and it seems like you're living the dream. 😉 Keep cherishing these moments and those Sunday roasts. That love you feel is the real MVP! 🏆❤️

HawkPerception · Answer

I wouldn't care about the sports stuff honestly. As long as she puts effort into the relationship and gives me breathing space to do my own thing, I'm a happy camper. A relationship requires effort on both sides. We can both cook each other our favourite meals occasionally. We both can both do our part cleaning the place. We can both make love to each other because we both want to be physically intimate with each other (it shouldn't be seen as a chore or service). Etc.

ohsheeT · Answer

No not at all. I mean what's he do for you.  I'm more interested in what kinda Dinosaur is coming out of that roast beef

MisterWack · Answer

“Just something he said to me today”

Well you’ve got yourself a good man who truly appreciates you, you’ve truly won at life too by the looks of things. God Bless You Both !

My wife cooks me a good Sunday dinner , makes love with me in the morning , and lets me watch my favorite programs / play video games (whether together cuddling or me solo by myself) then yeah I would feel like I won in life too.

Again, God Bless You Both ! Happy for both of you !

andreasderjuengere · Answer

It's about 50% there. But I would not want her to live for me only. She has own ambitions and wishes... I'd need to give my own contributions for her in a similar rate.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I would assume we have died. Not that I watch sport ball and I have had lots of Sunday sex. What has NEVER happened is having a girlfriend (never married) ever cook a meal for ‘us’. They didn’t cook. So I must assume if a girlfriend is cooking us a meal, we died and apparently I didn’t get the walk through Hell I assumed.

Yeah, not something I ever hold my breath for in my relationship world. I have a better chance of finding an unclaimed winning lottery ticket on the ground.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Not sure about a roast every Sunday. Mix it up a little. But yeah, her actions would demonstrate love / caring that would naturally inspire the same feelings in me. Taking satisfaction and joy in taking care of each other is the way it's supposed to work.

Bricealan · Answer

@gwendoline He should ONLY feel that way IF he returns the same care, giving, and love to her, because he FEELS that kind of care, giving and love for her.

THEN both of their lives would be something they BOTH won in life.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

I don't like roast  I don't enjoy watching "sportsball"  I employ my Sundays in more productive ways with either volunteering or party work I don't need a wife to enjoy all you have described

slatyb · Answer

I hate watching sportsball, and I don't particularly care for roast beef. Is she kinky?

Tarifa · Answer

There's more to being married than cooking and sex. Being there for each other when it really matters is what is important. That being said, sex is the morning is very rewarding.

lightbulb27 · Answer

nope, most of that doesn't do much for me. I want to sleep in the morning, the roast sounds ok, and sportsball is boring. But she sounds like a good woman for someone.

kavakava · Answer

Will she let me be in control of the TV remote control?

mobiusforniner · Answer

I want a woman who is her own person, where love is an unconditional value for each other, free of expectations. Someone who could flip me off and make me smile and say “wow”

Not some obedient sex slave who thinks her worth is defined by my expectations.

I’d hire a prostitute if I wanted services in exchange

MrOracle · Answer

I don't watch much in the way of sports, but the rest is an excellent start. The main other thing a man wants at home is peace. And that doesn't cost much.

Anonymous · Answer

lol there's more to life and marriage than that. marriage is hard work most days. not this rainbow and sunshine.

Yannae · Answer

I can follow the first two points, but the last one. Letting me watch what I want to watch. Here we both just watch what we want, and watch together if it's the same. I can't imagine a partner trying to prohibit me watching for example a football match lol

katiesmuff · Answer

It's got to make him feel really comfortable and content for sure and hope is a guy who is just as loving to his wife.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Your husband is a luck man. My wife would, but we're too busy chasing our young children around all day.

SotiCoto · Answer

... Who is "u" and why are they being allowed to watch "sportsball"?

Wiredone · Answer

My wife doesn't have to do any of that stuff for me to know that I won't in life. I knew that the day that she said yes to my marriage proposal.

Cormac995 · Answer

for the vast majority of men this is the dream wife.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a vegetarian, I actually don't have a wife, and I rarely watch sportsball.

Iron_Man · Answer

And she doesn’t enjoy that herself sports and cooking and she doesn’t get love back. Why isn’t she saying that she won the big prize?

Zack-Bann · Answer

Even if it was 2/3 without the roast I would feel like a winner honestly  I don’t need a lot to be happy as long as the purpose is there

Anonymous · Answer

Your husband is a very lucky man! So am I, as my wife does all of that for me too. And I treat her better than gold, because she is more precious than gold.

WonderingManII · Answer

Haha, I would feel very blessed to have a woman like that.

AndrésC64 · Answer

That would be nice, but there would be much more required. I'd take someone that actually cared about me and with which we had a good relationship, good communication, and common interests over the one you described any day.

Staximus · Answer

If I had a wife and liked sportsball then yes.

larry69 · Answer

It's nice but sports is fun but I like doing other things also

sage2021 · Answer

Gwendoline I don't have a wife. I'm straight.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

That's nice, but in order to be really happy, i have to see her happy too which means doing the things that she loves too! Both couple should be happy in order to claim a real happy family!

Gaylordslav · Answer

Nope that b! tch is cheating and trying to cover her decisions

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Obviously not if I was winning i wouldn't have a wife

Grond21 · Answer

Sounds amazing! I would switch the sports to reading though

Xoirwinkan · Answer

What more can a man ask for? The only thing missing is a robust crop of children from the beautiful wife.

Finchie40 · Answer

I know I wouldn’t complain

TheWombRaider · Answer

Only if she was on gag afterwards chatting on here instead of bothering me LOL

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

D**N SKIPPY, especially if she's a buxom blonde !!!

Guanfei · Answer

No, I feel like I'm about to wake up and be extremely disappointed this was all a dream.

BeechImFabulous · Answer

Did your husband log into your account and post this as a flex? haha.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Hell yeah and as much as she spoils me im going to spoil her back

queenofcardio · Answer

He better if I did all that

Lynx122 · Answer

Yes sounds good :)

WhitneySnow · Answer

I think most guys would love that

StephanieChick111 · Answer

He definitely appreciates that.

loveslongnails · Answer

Not necessarily.

Flower7 · Answer

How long have you been married?

jamesgoldman · Answer

Sure but I care little for sportsball

StevenMcGarrett · Answer

Yup, that is the perfect wife.

Dongie · Answer

Pretty much; you damn Jake!!

someone_2002 · Answer

I don't have a wife 😔

BigSwingingBalls · Answer

yup you've made it

Jeff51 · Answer

Im good with that.

qwerty2469 · Answer

Absolutely. The definition

Anonymous · Answer

What's the catch? There's always a catch?

exitseven · Answer

Triple YAHTZEE !

V1ka5h · Answer

Definitely...

Nonamez · Answer

Absolutely yes 🥳🥰

Panthero80 · Answer

That sounds ideal.

TheoreticallyGreat · Answer

I would say so

Your wife cooks you a lovely Sunday Roast every week, makes love with you in the morn & lets u watch sportsball do you feel you've won in life?

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