I work 2 jobs to provide for my girlfriend and Iwork out everyday and she still expects me to do household chores as much as her. Isn’t that unfair?

[Anonymous]

If a man can provide and fulfills his masculine role, why should he do chores? I am tired from working so much and my girlfriend still expects me to be able to do even more

[Finchie40]

Females have a different brain then we do , Females’ have 100 things racing on her head at once when is guys’ don’t even come close. So females’ get turned on even more when she c’s her man doing things instead of just sitting around , I know it’s crazy but that’s how most females’ think. A female isn’t satisfied until everything she has going through her brain is taken care of and most females’ assume we are mind readers that we are magically supposed to know what’s racing through her brain. She walks around the house pointing out so many things that she wants done that she expects her man to do without her telling him. So your girlfriend might have OCD. My ex was this way , I would work my ass off all week and when I came home from work she hated if I sat down to unwind , and she would start bitching about things that she wanted done and how dare she have to tell me , because I should of already known what was own her mind. I use to think of it bothers you that much , then why couldn’t you just do it yourself instead of waiting for me to do it when I got home from work , but unfortunately she doesn’t look at it that way , because she has this
Mindset that her man is supposed to take care of her all the time. So instead of arguing with her , I started coming home and tackling things without her having to tell me , even though I was exhausted from work all day I realized it’s better than hearing her bitch and complain things gotten better between us for a little while until she decided I should be doing a lot more , and that’s when I put my foot down and told her to Go Fuck herself and told her I am not a fucking mind reader and I am not your fucking slave , and I started pointing out the things she wasn’t doing when I was at work. While she was sitting on the phone talking to her friends for hours at a time not doing shit. So if your girlfriend is expecting you to do everything to appease her, it’s time for
You to kick her ass to the curb , because she will make your life a living hell my friend if she expects you to do everything

[Anonymous]

Grow a pair of balls. Speak up or walk. Because once you marry her, which I’m hoping you’re not stupid enough to do based on what you’re saying, it’s going to be worse. Now you’re locked in. I’m assuming you don’t have kids w her. It’s funny how women say we’re expected to do all the housework when in reality housework isn’t even that much. Especially if it’s just two of you. Unless the two of you are just slobs then you both need to straighten that shit out quick. I bet she complains that she always washes the clothes or does the dishes. But I also bet you you have a washer n dryer or use one somewhere. I also bet you have a dish washer. So who’s really doing those chores. The machines. As for dinner. I was taught by my mom how to wash my dishes while I cook, cause let’s face it you’re not standing there every second of every minute watching the food. Especially if it’s in the oven. My mom taught me that cause she knew that at some point in my life I’d be on my own for however long. My girl of 20 years puts her things away, throws her trash away, picks up after all her 8 dogs. Yes 8. I say hers cause she wanted dogs. Not saying that I hate them cause they’re awesome but I had a lot on my plate as it was so no time to really deal w dogs. I work a lot of OT, I maintain our yard which is huge. I work on the cars, fix what needs to be fixed. So no I don’t do any of that other stuff. She doesn’t complain either. My daughter tried this one time w me. Took her outside w me for 6 hours cause I spend a lot of time outside, especially in the summer which is usually triple digits. I made her help me mow the yard, cut the trees, pull weeds, plant more seeds, water the plants, fix the shed, build a house for the dogs when they go out. No she didn’t like it. Hasn’t complained since about doing housework inside an air conditioned house. Yes I’ve also done the housework as well w an ex of mine, who was similar to what your relationship is like now. It didn’t work out. I will also add that housework isn’t that hard at all if you take maybe less then an hour a day to tidy up. At the same time that doesn’t mean because she’s doing all the household chores you make things harder for her by throwing your clothes on the ground or leaving your trash wherever.

[MzAsh]

She’s an accountant. She’s never going to be the one staying home doing chores. You chose the wrong girl if that is what you’re wanting. Quit your 2nd job and help out at home.

[Anonymous]

How many things do you expect her to do in a single day?

[Asker]

Do housework after her job schedule ends instead scrolling on Instagram while I do my second job

[Opinion Owner]

So she has a job too?

[Asker]

Yes. She wants to do something with her life

[Opinion Owner]

What kind of job does she have?

[Asker]

Accountant

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a pretty stressful job

[Opinion Owner]

So you expect her to do that , do all the work in the house , she has a stressful job too and is probably pretty busy , yet you’re only concern is your job

[Opinion Owner]

Your^

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[Asker]

You mean my JOBS? My 12 hours workday? Indeed, every job is stressful, but it does not compare to my workload

[Opinion Owner]

You seem selfish tbh , god forbid anyone but you have problems

[AI Opinion]

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[Avicenna]

Does she by any chance work two jobs as well? Just trying to understand the totality of the circumstances.

[DonaldDarko]

Don't be a simp, that's very unfair.

[Asker]

I resist it

[exitseven]

I jiust hope that you are getting some.

[Asker]

That is not something I worry about. It’s going great

[Ariesman81]

You're the one tolerating it

[Asker]

So what do you suggest I should do?

[Ariesman81]

Stop tolerating it.

[jahaims]

Simp