Would you rather feel alone and unloved or disrespected and inadequate?

[HawkPerception]

Alone and unloved

Disrespected and inadequate

[Purpleronnie]

Well alone and un-loved I’ve had personal experience of , and as bitter as it was I generally think it experience shaped me positively and given your choice well id pick it again without hesitation.

[Purpleronnie]

Thanks for the MHO 🙂

[Ironco]

Alone is not so bad. I prefer it over someone treating you like crap and disrespecting you.

[DishLady]

Def would rather be on my own (and am) then to be treated poorly. My family raised me to be strong and to value all life and lift people up. I can’t do that if some dbag is pushing me down.

[Pearl222]

Alone and unloved any day over disrespected and inadequate. Although, technically I love being alone at times, so it’s not a bad thing at all and you have space in your life for much more love from friends, family and the divine. Romantic love could be nice, but at this point it’s not a necessity. I would only want to be with someone if they add value to my life.

[Foxeyes]

Being alone and unloved sucks but not feeling like you contributing and respected messes up your personal life and work life I think that’s worse

[queenofcardio]

I'd prefer being alone.. Feeling inadequate sucks

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

This is why I hate “would you rather” games, because y’all always pick horrible things to do

[HawkPerception]

It's a hypothetical. Do you have trouble answering hypothetical questions where you have to choose an option?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I just don’t understand why every man plays it as “which form of torture would you prefer to undergo?” Instead of acknowledging that thinking about this kind of stuff might be a little fucked up. Why would I CHOOSE to feel those ways when I can also choose to feel neither and feel better?

[HawkPerception]

So if you were in the scenario where someone said they would kill one of your loved ones and gives you the choice of which one he kills, you'd just not choose and let him kill both?

Although these scenarios are hypothetical, they can be very real.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think a better question is what do you gain by imagining your own suffering? And why do men ALWAYS do that?

[MOUTHWASHING]

I've been alone though all my life. Never had true friends and never a girlfriend. My hobbies are solo hobbies (military history, cinema, music) so Im pretty good right now

[katiesmuff]

What horrible choices!

[WonderingManII]

Both are awful, just kill me please.

[Dongie]

Alone