A girl who I thought was my good friend told another friend that she doesn't want to associate with me because I bring her down and don't change?

[Anonymous]

We were in a counseling group until she left our group. She said she was a good friend, but she changed and stopped talking to me, stopped texting and blocked me and unfriended me. Another friend showed me what she wrote. She said I bring her down and she doesn't want to associate "with people like that" said she doesn't care how I feel about it. This is someone who I stood by when she wanted to commit suicide, when she lost her pet and her job. I never judged her. I always supported her. I feel so betrayed and beyond heartbroken.

Now she hates me and I feel so sad that I can't go on.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

As much as it hurts to know your friend never thought of you as a friend, she isn’t in the wrong for choosing to distance herself. If anything, this is good for you because now you can focus your energy on your actual friends who care about you.

[Anonymous]

Do not trust this other friend. Looks like she’s playing a game to split the both of u appart. Go talk to the girl directly. Maybe this mediator friend told something wrong about u to her

[Anonymous]

I think you should talk to the girl directly, about the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

Whoa, what a rollercoaster of emotions you're on! 😢 It's tough when someone you've supported suddenly turns cold. But hey, let's not forget, life isn't about pleasing everyone. Relationships can shift unexpectedly. Consider this: Maybe she felt overwhelmed and needed distance, or perhaps it was her own struggles talking. Your value isn’t determined by one person's opinion. Time heals, and true friends cheer you on, awesome you. Keep your heart open for those who truly deserve it. 🌟