A girl I thought was a good friend said some terrible things about me, I don't know what to do?

[Anonymous]

This girl from my therapy group said she doesn't want to hear about me or talk to me anymore, she texted this to another "friend" from group. She said I always bring her down and don't want to change, but it's she who always has problems and would use me for emotional support and even money. She left the group and then bad mouthed me to everyone in the group. These are people I trusted with my deepest secrets and now they are telling her how wonderful she is (in group texts) and how much they love her, but I didn't do anything wrong to anyone, but they all seem to have abandoned me and take her side. She talked to me about trying to kill herself, she told me about cutting herself, she told me dark things and when I tried to tell her about me, she says now that I am the one who complains about problems. I can't deal with any of this. I have nobody to turn to, these are the only "friends" I had. I am feeling hopeless.

We were supposed to support each other, but the group supports her and abandoned me. I can't take anymore.

[Cormac995]

Welcome to woman. This is the vast majority of them. Finding a woman that's not a cunt is possible but it's almost impossible because all modern woman in general suck. They're, greedy, selfish, shallow, narcissistic liars. I've only met a handful of women in my entire life I can't accuse of this and be right and both of them work in mental health, so they have training in how not to be a bitch. Women say they want a good guy they're lying.

They want a guy who has those traits yes but those traits are way, way down the list of importance. The quality of your character isn't even in the top five things they consider in a mate. there's's ebb and flow but the top five things woman care about are money, looks, fertility, strength and status. If you don't check high on at least 3 of the 5 your odds are shit but money looks and status are commonly the three most important to woman. 1/3rd of marriages end in divorce and 70% of divorces are done on the woman's end. Further 70% of woman when asked about what is most important in a relationship replied, "Good finances."

Hell, the other day there was a 5'9 250 pound plus woman on here that wrote an essay on how all her friends suck because they only set her up with guys on her level. She was asking for a 6'6 fit good looking guy saying she "Deserved it." So yea in general woman suck and you have 2's that refuse to settle for less than 9s and it's ridiculous. Women in general just outright suck and most of them are bad, awful, selfish people.

[Staximus]

The problem is you are telling yourself that you can't deal with it but you can deal with it just fine. You don't need a support group. What the fuck do they actually do for you besides listen to you talk? Anybody can listen to you talk. You can go to a therapist and they will listen to you talk. You can find a new support group full of weak bastards, there are thousands out there. What the fuck do those people actually do for you? Absolutely nothing. Think about it.

[Delilan]

Not to be rude and i know this is annonymus but its not great for you to talk about her harming herself to anyone.

[Asker]

I never told except for the therapist to help her stop trying to.

[Delilan]

Okay well its none of my business and im sorry you guys have stooped talking

[Cormac995]

You did the right thing. If someone is self harming you shouldn't spread it around but you SHOULD tell her family or guardian figure. Telling they're therapist is also acceptable. I'm sorry your being punished for being a good person.

[Anonymous]

dude go talk to her straight. Stop talking through others. U don’t know if they are being honest

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Dude fuck off already. Just buy a sex toy and shut up

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You’ve posted about this like 8 times already. It’s getting old