What does it mean when my girlfriend says that she won't marry me?

[Anonymous]

We are really young but when i joke about it or send her marriage tiktoks, she always says no. I do 100% know that she loves me deep in her heart. Why would she say that? Can you help me understand why does she does it? I tried to talk with her and she said that she does not plan to marry her first serious partner (serious relationship partner), it really hurts me deep :(

[RavVid]

She is probably right. Few first loves last a whole life but it does happen. I know some.

Does this dismay anybody else? At this age love should be easy and wonderful. Definitely be you and me baby.

Does first love now have a shelf life?

[lorenzomichael]

Ghee let me think.🤔 I think that mean she doesn’t want to marry you but fuck it there are plenty of other chicks in the world don’t count this as a bad thing. Later you just might have realized she isn’t the one for you. The point I’m trying to make here is don’t get to attached to any one girl not now stay single marriage will find you you’ll see

[HelenaHandbasket]

Since being a "girlfriend" is more about seeing if there is a future together, she is not your girlfriend. At best you're a free meal ticket to her, or a way to make Daddy stop nagging her about moving out. If you're not aiming at marriage, friendzone her and keep looking. She can pay for her own lobster thermadore.

[Asker]

i dont know😭 she is like a dream. she is honest, she expresses love to me. i know we are young but when i just start talking about it she says no or gets rid of conversation

[Plugs]

Why is she a dream

[Nikki1989]

Marriage TikToks?

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love and its tangled webs! 😏 Your girlfriend's reaction might be about keeping her options open or simply feeling marriage is too big to wrap her mind around, especially if you're both young. That doesn't mean she doesn't adore you; she's just not ready to think about being tied down. Her honesty shows she's thinking deeply about the future – a green flag for great communication! Remember, love isn't always about destination, but the journey. Enjoy the ride, and let it unfold naturally! 🌟

[OlderAndWiser]

How old are you and how old is she?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

It could either be she doesn't want marriage and that's it; or that she actually wants to have some stability first - education, job, bank savings and a stable home.

[Asker]

she just rolled into university!

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Then it's way too early to talk about marriage.

[Asker]

im just joking and showing my love about talking about it, so you think its normal reaction from her?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You're in denial. She doesn't love you like you think she do.

Sorry man.

[Asker]

but man we are 16 and 18

[In_Trance]

I think she's trying to tell you that she won't marry you

[Asker]

But I don't know why is she saying that

[In_Trance]

So why don't you ask for clarification

[Asker]

as i said she says that she doesnot want to marry his first serious partner

[Abbycado]

It means she won’t marry you. @HollyK21 XD

[HollyK21]

He’s literally complicating it on purpose lol like wtf?

[Anonymous]

Why do u love her

[Asker]

i can't even explain with words! i wish you could see me and then you would understand … 😭

[Opinion Owner]

How many girlfriends have u had? Is she a virgin?

[Asker]

why do you ask?

[Opinion Owner]

Because u says she doesn’t wanna marry u

[Opinion Owner]

Why is she the one

[Asker]

yes she is a virgin but she plans to loose it with me and yes i had many girls in past but those relationships were for fun

[Opinion Owner]

I think that’s why she doesn’t want to marry u. As a virgin myself i would be at a losing position marrying a guy like u. no offence

[Asker]

because with her my only interest is not sex! it is my last!

[Opinion Owner]

What is your interest?

[Asker]

to build something real with her, to help her in every part of her life, to have bright future with her. i dont even want to live without her

[Opinion Owner]

Why is she the one?

[Asker]

because i fell in love with her! she did everything to me.

[Opinion Owner]

What’s so special about her? How old are u both?

[Asker]

me 16, her 18

[Opinion Owner]

lol 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Both of u are too young to be talking about marriage

[Opinion Owner]

Why don’t u want to love without her?

[Opinion Owner]

Live

[Anonymous]

It means she's not ready for marriage yet.