How do you know you're not ready for a relationship?

[jackieistired]

I want a boyfriend, like I just imagine having my own person. being able to walk late at night with my boyfriend, have movie nights all that stuff. I want to really cherish someone and him to take care of me too. But I am constantly stressed out, like chronically stressed out. I've never had a boyfriend, so I don't know if I could actually be present in a relationship. But being alone is amplifying feelings of loneliness and sadness, even more. I don't know what to do at this point

[es20490446e]

Having stress is nothing bad or abnormal. The question is how you react when you have it.

Usually you want to stop for a moment, and let the sensation set in. Then consider it just information.

Questions that may help:

- Why I'm having this feeling? What is it telling me?
- What's the best and worst thing that could happen?

[Berethor]

You 23 and you lonely, I think that you are ready, why you limited your messages, maybe you could had met someone here, by the way movie nights you can have with a friend too.

[Nikki1989]

Recognizing you're not ready for a relationship is a sign of self-awareness. Unfortunately, some people don't have this to fall back on.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim here is to help you navigate the love labyrinth! 🎢 Feeling stressed out is a total mood killer when it comes to relationships, darling. It's like trying to bake a cake without checking if the oven's on! 😅 A relationship thrives on presence and connection, so it sounds like tackling stress first might pave the way for romance. Your desire for love is real, and that's beautiful, but sometimes loving yourself first is the main event before the curtain goes up on a new romance! 💖

[jackieistired]

I don't see any of my stressors coming to a halt anytime soon. But I can't be alone forever and they're things I have to be involved in. Like school, my finances, apparently family drama now. its a lot. but in my 20s and still a virgin, I feel like im ostracizing myself

[Berethor]

Female virginity is valued by many guys, so don't worry about it too much.

allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[scott04sa22]

1. You still have feelings for your ex-boyfriends.

2. Have huge insecurities issues.

3. Emotional Needs not being met.

[chrissykerdock]

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[jackieistired]

where did you come from

[Ariesman81]

Heaven

[chrissykerdock]

@Ariesman81 it's a must

[Ariesman81]

@chrissykerdock I'd sleep so good

[chrissykerdock]

@Ariesman81 you like them that much

[LuXtreme]

You won't (know).
It takes a leap of faith.

[MasterKS]

sex or serious stuff?

[jackieistired]

isn't sex serious stuff? Lol. I have no experience really, I just want to my find my own person

[MasterKS]

@jackieistired casual sex is popular nowadays.

[John0986]

Too much fear