What are some reasons you should never share feelings w/ a woman you're seeing?

[Vegasrunner]

[Summeroflove]

Well just meeting someone you should obviously be careful what you share with someone you don’t know well yet. But as far as a long term relationship… Dude if you can’t share feelings with a woman you’re in a long term relationship with END IT… it’s better to be alone.

You don’t want to be married and miserable inside your own house never being able to express any emotions. When you’re sad, angry, or anything else you cannot share it. It will literally eat you alive and destroy you as a human being. Even the Bible says a woman who refuses to comfort her man will create shaking knees.

A woman who loves you feels empathy for you and will be there for you. The way you are for her. Don’t become miserable.

[David318578]

Women can be manipulative, best to only share with them how horny you are or how angry you are with them until you get to know them better and gain an understanding of who they actually are.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 That's an interesting take. How would that benifit a man?

[David318578]

Well its kind of simple letting them know you are horny gets you laid, letting them know when you are angry with them lets you know what kind of person she is based on her reaction to you being mad at her. You can use that info to decide if this is worth pursuing farther or cutting her loose.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 You think telling a woman your horny gets men laid? How many women have you had sex with?

[David318578]

Lol not a random girl, but your question was based on a girl you are seeing, so yeah if i tell a girl im seeing that im horny then im getting laid.

What are you begging for it or something? Are you more of a beta that has to beg for sex?

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 I think I understand your confusion. No the question is based on a general situation not a specific one. Also you speaking of one specific feeling, the question is about feelings in general. How many women have you actual had sex with?

[David318578]

Yes the general situation is "someone you're seeing" which implies already having some forum of a relationship rather then just meeting in a bar.

So there is no confusion on my end. But your confusion on me telling a girl im seeing that im horny shows that you are not in the same Alpha category.

You see when you are an Alpha there are expectations in that relationship. She is expected to take care of my needs when i tell her what me needs are.

So the fact you didn't understand this shows you are in a beta relationship. How exactly does that work for you? Do you just watch a guy like me taking care of your girl and then you get seconds? Are you at the cuckold part of the relationship? Or still at the begging part?

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 You literally added a part that wasn't included in the original question. Please come back and respond to the question asked. TY

[David318578]

This is your question "What are some reasons you should never share feelings w/ a woman you're seeing?"

See the part about "a woman you're seeing"? Yeah thats your question so thats what I based my answer on.

The expectations of a woman "you're seeing" is going to be completely different based on an Alpha male relationship vs a Beta male relationship

I gave the Alpha male answer which confused you. So there is only one conclusion based on your not understanding how the dynamics work in an Alpha male relationship.. you're not an Alpha.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 I think I understand your confusion. The question I asked you is how many women have you actually had sex with. If you have to share with a woman you're corny, that's not really Alpha behavior, however because of your inexprience you may not understanding that.

[David318578]

No thats not the question you asked. Again you asked "What are some reasons you should never share feelings w/ a woman you're seeing?"

I answered that women can be manipulative so some feelings are better to share then others..

You asked what to share, and i said things like if im angry at her, of if I'm feeling horny.

And yes telling your girl your horny and expecting her to take care of it is Alpha behavior. Im not asking her for anything, im telling her the situation and she is going to take care of it.

So can you shead some light on your Beta interactions? Do you have to beg for sex? Or just keep it to yourself and wait for her to tell you she is horny?

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 That was the original question I asked. Then I asked how this would benifit a man. Which you claimed that by simply approaching a woman and telling her you're corny, she would stop what she's doing and have sex w/ you. Since that is false I asked how many women you've been w/. You then ignored that question and went off on a random tangent. So yes that is the question I asked. Since you are attempting to provide advice to men about how to be successful, measure your success is relevant. So how many women have you been with?

[David318578]

I never claimed that approaching a girl and telling her your horny would do anything.
I said telling that to a girl "your seeing" would be an example of a benefit to a man.

How you interact with a girl you are seeing is going to be difficult then how you interact with a stranger. If you still struggle with this distinction then you need my help more then i thought.

As far as how many women i have been with. I have to be honest i dont even know, i would really have to do some thinking on that. I dont think its in the 1000s but honestly i could be for all i know. When i was younger i traveled a lot and that really opens up a lot of opportunities for one night stands even of I had a girl that i was "seeing" back at home.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 I think I understand your confusion your original statement left out the seeing part almost as if you're encouraging the reader to utilize this strategy on any girl he meets. That mistake aside your premise is still a bit strange. For starters you're sharing a only specific feeling to a general question. Furthermore if you are truly HV why would you need to say anything? I can't speak for you but I train all of my women to understand what I like, so typically they will just ask me if I want sex vs your strategy of begging to get laid.
I'm not looking for an exact number just an approximation. One of the things that fascinates me about this platform is most if the men always weigh in w/ beta advice like yours, but have never had any success w/ women. I agree w/ the travel part I currently travel quite often for my scouting business, which has led to me having women all over the country.

[David318578]

Well the question and topic was about a woman you are seeing, so of course thats what my answer was based on. If someone took my answer as something to use for a random girl then that person would be kind really confused and might be a lost cause.

As far as the ball park number. I started doing some math, and i was getting laid every weekend, most of the times it would be Friday and Saturday.

So based on the years that i started really crushing it. Thats 1700-3400 women, now some weekends it would only be 1 girl, and of course there are some times you are sick so im in no mood so that would be a 0. But other times I would be out of town for a week or so and would rack up a bunch during that time. So my initial estimation of under a 1000 is way off its 2-3 times that.

For your question on why I would tell her when i want her to take care of me? Simple Im a very successful and busy man and i dont want any of my girls coming up to me and bothering me when I'm working. I will tell them what i want when I want it.

You not understanding this last point is just another example of how your more in a beta relationship. You have your girls drive the ship, its doesn't get any more beta then that.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 The question was share feelings so are you making the argument that you share all your feelings w/ women?
Also there's incongruency in your claim if you're meeting random women every weekend that means there's no prior relationship so you would in essence be telling girls you are approaching that you want to get laid? Also your math doesn't add up even if you were getting laid by a different woman every weekend for approximately 30 years, that would be 1600 women, but that would mean you found a new girl on Saturday, and she instantly w/ you? Plus you did this while still adhering to your work and travel schedule every weekend for 30 years? Which doesn't even factor in the weekends you struck out as you said. Also if you're claiming you say these things to the women you're seeing, how can you be "seeing" a woman you just picked up? Also you don't seem that busy if you have time to approach so many random girls. If they're random why would they come up and approach you for sex, doesn't even make since. You're land in Dallas and want to have sex w/ the girl you met in Philly last week how would she get to you? To do what you're claiming you would have to unpack then go somewhere where a random girl is just waiting to have sex w/ an regular 50 yro man? How tall are you?
Your position is that a man begging a woman for sex is better than a man creating enough value that woman want to have sex with you?
Let's say you did have sex w/ the number you claimed, why would you share, your emotional problems w/ some random chick you just met?

[David318578]

Man do you get confused easily. I never said i shared all my feelings with a woman. In fact the only feelings I said I shared was when im angry at her and if im feeling horny.

Me meeting women on the weekends has nothing to do with if im seeing someone. I can be seeing someone and still pick up women. Thats how alpha relationships work. And another example of you not being in an Alpha relationship.

Think of it like this, your girl has you that she is seeing, but she still goes to the clubs and hooks up with random guys. In your situation the girl is a the alpha and you are the beta. So my situation is the opposite.. understand now?

Yes my math is correct, 33 years. 52 weeks in a year is 1716-3432 women.
And yes i can meet a girl and take her back and have sex with her that same day. Thats how it works when you are not a beta.

And i would never share my emotional problems with any random hookup. Why would you think i would? This is a strange thing to think from you.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 Then I was correct, you never answered the question, the question wasn't which feelings do you share it was was what are reasons why you shouldn't share.
I think I understand your confusion, you made the argument that you were meeting women when traveling on the weekend, if that is true that means you are meeting a woman for the first time, and your sharing you feelings of anger and lust w/ her?
I don't allow my women right to see other men so no I can't empathize w/ your club scenario.
According to you, you struck our on weeks, so if you are traveling to a new city you need to find a place to meet a new woman each time, approach that women, take her out, then have her agree to have sex on the first date, logistically that isn't realistic. You're attempting to convince readers thar women are standing on the corner waiting to be approached by you and w/out anyone incentive they're going back to a strangers room to have sex w/ a guy they met seconds later? So you land at say 5pm, check into a hotel at 7pm, then you're attempting to say you walk out the room and there's tons of women waiting to be picked up by an average guy?
I think you share your emotional problems w/ random hookups because.
1. You never answered the original question asked.
2. You are sharing your emotions w/ women you are supposedly seeing.
3. You're making an illogical argument that you share your emotions w/ women you are seeing but you spend your time traveling and having instant sex w/ women in cities who are available and seeking relationships w/ an average guy.

[David318578]

That is a HUGE wall of text that was completely unnecessary. I answered your question in my first post. You could of saved yourself a lot of pointless writing about nothing if you would of just read what I posted. Its literally the first sentence.

"you made the argument that you were meeting women when traveling on the weekend, if that is true that means you are meeting a woman for the first time, and your sharing you feelings of anger and lust w/ her?"

Incorrect. As I have said before, rules for someone im seeing will be different then a hookup. I understand that you being a beta dont usually get hookups so I understand your confusion.

"So you land at say 5pm, check into a hotel at 7pm, then you're attempting to say you walk out the room and there's tons of women waiting to be picked up by an average guy?"

No of course not, Im not an average guy. Your confusion is again based on your own life experience, and your experience as a beta will be completely different then an alpha.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 You responded but npt to the question asked. You were asked you to explain why you shouldn't share your emotions. Your answer was you should share your lust and anger w/ women.
So the rules are you share your emotions w/ the women you are seeing?
So they're waiting for a below average guy? For any man to consistently attract women it takes sweat equity. Meaning you need to bring some value, your narrative of you show up in a random city and once you land woman instantly flock to you have sex at first sight is absurd at best and your inability to articulate how you find these women and build attraction proves that it is much more likely you are a woman pretending to be a man attempting to pretend men attract women the same way women attract men. Think about for all his claims of "helping" you haven't provided one tangible piece of information that corroborate your claim.

[David318578]

Its my first post and you still didn't go back and read it? Lol

You asked for some reasons you shouldn't share your feelings with a woman you are seeing, i answered that question with saying women can be manipulative, its the first sentence in my first reply.

I also gave an exception to that rule with sharing some of your feelings, anger and horny.

This is not complicated and not sure why you struggle so much with a very simple concept.

As far as you thinking its absurd that I can get women so fast. You think its absurd because you are looking at the situation based on your own experiences. Someone who is a low value man, a beta, socially awkward, ugly, fat, etc will never understand what its like for guys who are swimming in pussy. So of course you think its absurd.

[Vegasrunner]

@David318578 You don't know why a reader would struggle with you saying you shouldn't share your feelings then providing scenarios where you share your feelings? I think it's absurd because when asked what that looks logistically you deflect, avoid and change the subject. This is because you didn't think further enough into your lie. You thought claiming that you show up and seconds later you're penetrating a random woman in a random city was enough to convince the reader of your lie. However you didn't factor in what happens when you share this with men who actually get women. I asked you specifically you land at 5 check into a room by 7 and then what? Including me my circle contains future, current and professional basketball players, you know the type of men women actually want and even we realize there's sweat equity to get a woman. The only people who don't have to put in sweat equity to have sex are woman which is what you are describing. So, don't be embarrassed that no one believes you, your statement lacks detail and substance. Combined that w/ your original incongruency and it is more realistic that you're a female emotionally triggered by the original comment.

[Dargil]

what feelings