Is it wrong to avoid conflict even if it means hiding your true feelings in a relationship?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[JesseP1nk]

Conflict delayed is conflict multiplied

https://www.youtube.com/embed/H1dQwJjJMNc

[Dongie]

I don't know but I've been guilty of it.

[HawkPerception]

I think a lot of guys are. They don't want to get of the girl's bad side in fear of her leaving. Whether it's about her weight, how she talks to you, etc.

You're an honest fella Dongie. Just want ya to know I respect ya.

[Dongie]

Well, thanks, Hawk. I feel the same.

[ohsheeT]

When you're in a relationship you're supposed to love each other so why did you have to do a conflict that's what I don't understand if you can't say what you need to say any respectful way in a polite way without body language without tone of voice and what are you doing with that person if you can't control yourself what are you doing with that person if you love somebody you work together you make it work and you should be able to say anything that you want as long as it's done in a respectful tone and manner

[IslaTheWitch]

of course, it's wrong...

you can't avoid conflicts... they happen because people are different and see things differently... and as long as they know how to learn from this and make the relationship better, there is nothing wrong with it

but when you close yourself, the relationship is dying... slowly and painfully...

if you need to do it... just break up and let your partner find someone open and ready to fight for the relationship

[hahahmm]

Men built civilizations because they had constructive goals. They knew how to make their feelings secondary to the goals. I would say that to be the best man possible, you will only do things that follow this pattern. Sometimes it is good to go a certain direction & sometimes it isn't. But the reason shouldn't be to express feelings... as a man, unless that happens to follow the pattern.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'll just say I have an ex who dumped me precisely because I tried to avoid any sort of conflict and confrontation.

It almost happened again with my wife when we were engaged and said ex drilled it into my head I was letting history repeat itself.

[andreasderjuengere]

Conflicts can be resolved in a peaceful and educated manner.

Where - also feelings can be communicated. There is no need to hide them... but they should not rule the situation.

In fact: A relationship works best with no feelings involved.

(This is a provocative statement, of course)

[Garud]

yes but how long will this last is the question, till the day the volcano explodes and there is a surprise all around, and the worst part is that even after explaining the partner does not want to look beyond him/herself

[Crazzyyworld]

As long as u r honest everything can be compromisable. But u just have to go slow and know the right timing. It comes naturally. Follow the Mother Nature.

[exitseven]

Sometimes you have to do it. Sometimes it's just not worth it

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

So, confront it now or add gunpowder for a later date lol

[castortroy]

Because you're not communicating openly