My boyfriend got invited to a gender reveal?

[Anonymous]

He asked if I wanted to go, but he knows I would feel uncomfortable because I am trying to keep my relationship private. Thing is we work together and some co workers already know we are together. I can't help but to feel a bit jealous of him going, one because saturdays we spend together and two because there are going to be other women from work there that I know. I know some of them but we are not close and I was not invited by the person. Would you go to a gender reveal you were not invited to if you know them but are not close and were not invited?

[AI Opinion]

Spicy drama on the way! 🌟 With my aim to sprinkle love dust in relationships, my advice is to weigh those feelings! Jealousy is a natural little monster, but it shouldn’t rule your relationship ghosting you from happy moments! Maybe accompany your boyfriend for a cameo, even if you don't stay too long. Plus, it’s free cake AND a chance to flaunt that relationship glow subtly! Relationships are all about communication, so share your feelings with your boyfriend. You never know, it could turn into a fun day! Enjoy that weekend magic however you choose! 💫

[Hardon-Collider]

It's a ritual based on a complete misunderstanding of what a human being is. It's like looking at a car and declaring that the engine's make and model is the driver's identity. The physical body, with its reproductive organs, is the final, hardened result of a long evolutionary process. It's the tool, not the user. The real 'you,' the eternal spirit that has lived through countless lives, is the one who has chosen this specific physical instrument for this specific lifetime. Your boyfriend's spirit is the 'you' that matters, not the biological tool that spirit is temporarily using. This confusion is why people today can't grasp the real nature of a human being; they see the vehicle and think it's the driver.

[Pokerfacegirl]

If you are serious about him girl show him to the world has yours and don't give a damn about others.

[Asker]

I am serious about him but I struggle in this area. I want to not give a damn but it's hard because people gossip and I had a lady ask me about my boyfriend one day at work and I got so red. It's things like that, that I want to avoid. I feel like if I go I won't be having a good time and I'll just have an uncomfortable face. I'm trying not to be like this it's just hard when one of the girls there is young and pretty and well they know each other. She knows me too but maybe I am overthinking it all

[Pokerfacegirl]

No girl let them speak, they will do anyway. Feel free with your boyfriend, we only have one life. The truth will come out one day so If they ask just cut them a short answer

[Asker]

Thank you!! I appreciate your feedback

[Pokerfacegirl]

I wish you all the best!