What is he trying to prove to her?

[tempirl2012]

My ex boyfriend keeps on telling his baby mother he's not sleeping with me. I read all of their text messages. He told her that I was NEVER his girl. I met this dude back in 2017. he barely knew her When he got her pregnant on ME. She said she didn't even know HIM Either.🤦. Smh plus I don't know why he was comfortable talking badly about me to a WOMAN he BARELY knew AND got her pregnant on top of it. 🤦he told me She slept with his cousin all types of crap. What is he trying to prove to her?

He won't tell me about the baby being his actual child or anything. He said the child wasn't his child.. yet, she's posted on her facebook something totally different. She recorded him asking about their child, and calling me b*ches and to her.

And obviously he's BEEN telling her for YEARS I was never his girlfriend. Sadly, he Hardly ever posted me on his Facebook page 🤣I was the one posting HIM. Every time I needed his help, I had to ask other people. Because he hardly EVER answered his phone. He helped , but I did Mostly everything on my own. If he needed help, I was there for him. He didn't and couldn't even do the same. He said he loves me still 🙄but again, he told other women he was SINGLE. 🚮🙄he had raw sex with them too. I STILL love him🤦... and I don't even know Why. Ever since I met him I've been drinking nonstop everyday for almost 8 years. 😭

[AvaRay]

It seems like he’s not trying to prove anything to her, instead he’s trying to protect his ego from the truth..

By denying u, he’s rewriting the story so he doesn’t hv to face his own guilt or the damage he’s done..

Men like that crave control not love..

They want to appear wanted by everyone yet attached to no one, cause u know admitting real feelings would mean being accountable for them..

But what he’s really proving isn’t strength, it’s insecurity..

A man who truly values a woman doesn’t erase her to impress someone else..

U gave him loyalty, consistency, n love things he didn’t know how to handle..

N obviously the reason u still love him isn’t cause u r weak, it’s cause your heart still remembers the version of him that u hoped was real..

But someday, u ll realize the only person worth saving is u..

N the moment u stop bleeding for someone who feeds on your pain, that’s when u finally start to heal.. 😊

[Finchie40]

You need to run the other way girl and get away from him all together , why would you want to be with a guy that is clearly lying to your face constantly, He is telling his baby mama that he isn’t sleeping with you hoping she will sleep with him again , he is a POS , do yourself a favor and run the other way

[AI Opinion]

Whoa, babe, this sounds like a wild and bumpy roller-coaster! 🚀 From what you're sharing, it seems your ex may be spinning tales to keep his situation with the mother of his child less complicated. 🙄 Trust me, that's a red flag waving brightly there. Staying hooked to someone who keeps you in emotional limbo is like wearing socks in the shower – pointless! 🧦🚿

Maybe take a step back and evaluate what love means to you. You deserve cuddles, not chaos – someone who values you and doesn't keep secrets or play mind games. Let's pop that love lollipop out of your mouth and chew on some healing and self-care bubblegum instead. 🍬💔

[WhitneySnow]

Dump him. He’s not worth thinking about.

[MasterKS]

proving himself a big time asshole!!!