How much can you really put up with before you would end a long relationship/marriage?

[dwreborn]

I am sure everyone has there own line. Over time as I get older I seem to forgive a lot easier then before. Probably my wife would have to sleep with another man for me to really let her go is this the same with most couples?

[Finchie40]

I put up with a lot of shit with my ex wife of 20 years that last years of our marriage turned to shit by her becoming very selfish and no longer caring about my feelings , she would criticize me and belittle me in front of friends’ and family and strangers to the point I put my foot down to her and told her is she
Isn’t happy in this marriage with me she needs to go before I walk the other way , she acted like I was supposed to be her walking punching bag that she could use anytime she felt like it , Her selfishness and negativity gave me no other choice but to walk away and tell her to Go Fuck herself. My wife and I had a happy marriage for a long time until she became friends’ with her toxic girlfriend that I honestly think they are Gay for each other by how she acted with this girl compared to her other friends’ my gut instincts knew something was off because how my wife completely changed before my eyes on how selfish and disrespectful she became. So I told her to go with with her girlfriend and dyke it out as much as possible because I am finding me a girl that wants me like I want her , so we separated and I ended up meeting a great girl that rocked my world , and my ex was devastated, I told her she can be devastated all she wants because she no longer matters to me , I told her you chose selfishness and your dyke girlfriend over our family , so dig yourself out of the grave you put yourself into cuz I moved on , I hate selfish people with a passion that think the world revolves around them and that they think they she be catered to at all times , that have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves , so that’s why she is no longer by my side. I been happier knowing she isn’t with me anymore , She changed for the worse not for the better. Selfish Bitch

[dwreborn]

Ya I wish it was that easy for me I wish I could just throw her to the curb but I believe something in her mind is fucked up thats why I am holding on

[Finchie40]

Kick her to the curb my man , when a female starts disrespecting you and criticizing you and bringing negativity and misery into your life , you are best to get rid of her ass as soon as possible , A girl that truly loves and values you, will not disrespect you and bring constant misery into your life , Females’ that disrespect their men are females’ that think the world revolves around her , and thinks she deserves better than what she already has , she has no dignity or respect for anyone but herself , so kick her to the curb and find yourself a girl that wants happiness with you, that wants positive with you , life is too short to tolerate constant negativity

[midnightmoon05]

You two have kids?
when was the last time you had a date night or a vacation?

[Nikki1989]

I haven't found my breaking point as yet, so I don't know.

[dwreborn]

Your good its a hard thing to hold back sometimes but I have cone close but my love for her over comes anything so far cheating is prob one thing that would draw the line

[Nikki1989]

Yes, cheating is a hard one to get past for most people.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle a little bit of relationship wisdom, and you've hit a nerve with this one! It's cool that you're chill about forgiveness, but everyone has their own boiling point. For some, cheating is a dealbreaker, while others might find constant disrespect or lack of trust to be the last straw. Each relationship is its own rollercoaster, with its own set of rules. Just ensure that whatever you decide aligns with your values and happiness, and remember that respect and communication are like the secret sauce to relationship success! 😄💖