Have you ever known a friend cheated but they asked you to keep it secret?

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TrueConfection · Accepted Answer

I can only think of once. She was married and she was flirting with a guy we met while out together. He walked us to our car and he gave her a very long kiss goodbye (tongue and all). She didn’t seem to have any regrets about it either.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Few times and I avoided such topics and wouldn't confirm anything, but I didn't lay either. Of course those guys with two functioning brain cells knew what is going on after my reaction.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes a handful of times from guys’ and girls through the years , I just stay out of it for the most part because i don’t want any parts of it , but if it was someone I cared about , I will tell the the truth that their partner is a POS

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Yes, a few times, including both guys and girls. None of them were married, but they were in serious dating relationships.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach on here, I've definitely encountered situations like this. When a friend confides in you about cheating, it's a sticky situation. 😅 Trust and loyalty compete with your moral compass. Encourage them to come clean with their partner. Dishonesty is a red flag and undermines the foundation of a relationship. Love is meant to be transparent! 🌟

ohsheeT · Answer

Yes I new she new that I new but I never said anything to any one until this moment

Benjiman19 · Answer

Absolutely I have known. More than once with the same friend. Practically every single relationship he's had, he's cheated. And I've known about all of them. He knows I know because he's told me about them. I'm not there to leak his secrets to whoever he is with. But as a friend, I am there to guide him against it. I am there to try and push him into what is right and what is best for everyone in the situation.

aaron13547 · Answer

I have been the one that secret was kept from, and I realize that they wanted it kept a secret to avoid an ass whooping. That's a bad situation to put your friends in. Lol. When my "friends" do shit like that it makes them not a friend real quick.

thatshydork · Answer

Sort of? It was my friends ex who she was dating at the time who told me first and told me not to tell her he told me; then the next day she told me.

glennos89 · Answer

No I'm not the type of guy to do that. I'm not willing to lie for anyone. I wouldn't rat them out by myself but if someone is asking me a question about it, I'm going to be honest about it

Gwendoline · Answer

Yes. I said nothing but refused to lie or facilitate her cheating. I stopped being her friend. Just distanced myself by degrees.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, but I stay out of the lives of others anyway. I don't even like discussing it on here, to be honest.

Iron_Man · Answer

No I’m not gonna be quiet. I’m gonna tell the man or the woman right in front of him or her for doing what she did or what he did. That’s not the kind of loyalty that I honor. I’m not gonna support cheaters

worldscolide · Answer

No, because I do befriend people who cheat on their spouses. If one asked me to keep that kind of thing secret, I would end the friendship and tell their spouse.

AgentG111 · Answer

No response is the best whether it happened or not. Disclosure of yes or no then places you on the rat list. Loose lips sink ships. The enemy is always listening

bunnyboo24 · Answer

No I dont befriend abusers and if they did I'd leave and tell it to the person

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I've known people that cheated, they didn't ask to keep a secret but I just didn't tell anyone cause it's not my business

NordicInScandinavia · Answer

Yes, they're no longer people I call friends.

jahaims · Answer

Nah, I'm not trash and I don't spend time with trash. If a friend of mine cheated I would tell their partner everything then cut contact with the ex friend

RavVid · Answer

I would resent being morally compromised and could not remain a friend with the cheater.

Luopio27 · Answer

I have had friends that have or would have cheated, but didn't do anything about it. Now they all former friends!

RedWine9 · Answer

I did but I told her husband when he asked she knew I wouldn't lie for her.

genericname85 · Answer

yeah. i feel stupid giving such a short answer but it is what it is xD

Sam1133 · Answer

Yup my friend girlfriend had sex with me we both are drunk we had sex whole night next day she asked me to keep it secret.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean….. I do but don’t know I’ve been needed to be asked. I’ve never cheated on a girlfriend but I’ve been the one like 4 or 5 have cheated with.

dinojames22 · Answer

Yep. didn't know any of the other folks involved. Not my problem

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Yes, my x brother in-law 🚫

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. This never happened to me.

Noredcarpet · Answer

No, I have not.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope because they know I won't.

HighValue · Answer

I wouldn't stay friends with a cheater.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, and my father too.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Yes and I did keep it a secret.

oswaldcobblepot · Answer

Yes but she didn't actually cheat

FateofOphelia · Answer

Yes and I kept it a secret

Cidknee · Answer

Yep! Even asked to cover for them.

Kelly6 · Answer

@ginger_snap Yes more then 1

bananathunder · Answer

yeah a few times...

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes im going g thought that right now

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it happened once, I didn't like it.

robocop666 · Answer

Yes but I did not know his girlfriend.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Don't have any friends

OneViewpoint · Answer

Yup.

Jennz6 · Answer

Never

Anonymous · Answer

Nope.

Sebastian100 · Answer

Nope

QuietRunner · Answer

yes I have

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