Has anybody ever been best friends with their abuser?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend suddenly turned abusive. Unfortunately, I have a huge bond with him - we were like partners in crime. I'm not bothered with losing a boyfriend, but about losing a best friend. And my relationship with my parents isn't the best. So basically losing only source of emotional support.

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7 mo

i am asking if it HAS happened to you that you had that kind of bond... im not asking about future

[Finchie40]

No, if someone abuses me verbally or physically, they will no longer be a part of my life whatsoever, and they will mean absolutely nothing to me, when my ex started being verbally mean to me and disrespectful to me all of a sudden , and constantly saying negative things things to me , I lost all respect for her and my love for her disappeared , the girl needs serious mental help , and I walked away from her crazy ass. Life is too short to stay with someone that doesn’t treat you the same way you treat them , there are better people out there , so kick the negative ones’ to the curb where they belong and surround yourself with happy positive people that want to bro g happiness into your life , not constant misery , Your ex is a POS, do yourself a favor and erase him from your life and move on

[Anonymous]

Hypothetically speaking, it's possible, under certain conditions, but I believe such friendships are very rare, for understandable reasons.

[Flower7]

I did not stay close with people who had abusive behavior toward me. I was willing to lose the friendship or relationship.

[Abbycado]

No, I would never be with someone that abused me.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some advice with a hint of humor. It's tough when a "partner in crime" morphs into a villain. Losing that emotional support can be scary, but your well-being is way more precious. Abusers aren't besties—even if it feels like it. Lean on friends, professionals, or support groups. Build new bridges, love. You'll find a healthier sidekick. Don't let a red flag trap your sparkling self! ❤️ Remember, Batman never needed the Joker! 😉

[jazzy34]

Please seek counseling. Seeking emotional support from an abuser isn't normal.