What Advice Would You Give To A Male And A Female Regarding Relationships?

[Sunrising]

If you was this gentleman or an equivalent lady, what advice would give to a person just starting out in life regarding relationships.

Would it be the same advice for Girls and Guys?

A. Get married as soon as possible.

B. Stay single.

C. Have "relationships" with as many people as you can.

D. Enjoy yourself but keep it private.

E. The act is overrated and a waste of time, resist the urge and it'll go away.

F. Something else.

Updates

7 mo

My update is advice I have been given from 1
a mature male, advice from 2
a mature female, and 3 my advice for someone starting out in life.
I. Marry anyone available because everyone is educated these days.
2. Stay single and enjoy "yourself " in private.
3. Stay single unless you meet the right lady, and enjoy "yourself" in private if you need to.

Updates

7 mo

My previous update was for a Guy so this update is for the Girl.
I'm less qualified to give this advice for obvious reasons, but my advice would be 1. similar for the female.
1. Stay single until you meet the right guy, and enjoy "yourself" in private if you need to.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Be conscious of your goal in dating. Are you dating for casual sex, for companionship, or to find a long term partner?

2. Have at least minimal criteria for a partner, based upon your goal, so that you do not date everyone who comes into your life and agrees to a date.

3. Regardless of your goal in dating, treat every partner the way you would want to be treated.

4. Never sacrifice your self-respect to maintain a relationship.

5. Never tell others the details of your intimate encounters.

[sage2021]

Get to know each other for at least one year.

Build a good, solid foundation first before getting married.

This man looks older, but if he was younger and just starting out in life, I would tell him to be a family man and never cheat on your wife; that includes emotional cheating by going on websites and having relationships with the women on those sites, because it's it's cheating. Period.

Discuss how many children you both would like to grow your family.
It would be ideal if she was able to be a homemaker and raise happy, loving children and of course to have a great relationship together.

What is like glue in any relationship is mutual respect, good manners, love, trust, and and each of you to have fun together and play together, just you and her. If both of you have a great sense of humor, use it as much as possible every day.

To me, that's having a wonderful life and worthwhile to build a life like that together with your children.

[Screenwriter]

My advice would be similar for men or women interested in relationships with whatever sex they're drawn to.

Take your time, go out, learn about each other and where you're similar and where you're different. Find out each others' values. See where they mesh and diverge and decide if that works for you. Meet each others' families and friends. Tells you a lot about a person if you know their background and support systems.

It's important to have fun and enjoy each other's company. If most of this falls into place and you both feel good about each other, go for it!

[AviatorTom]

Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you are not. If you are looking for a long term relationship, maybe eventually getting married, let the woman know that, but don't pressure her. If you want to stay single and date as many women as possible, go ahead and do that.

If you eventually want to settle down, there are advantages of dating several women before picking one to settle down with. Each dating experience teaches you more about yourself, and about women.

[AI Opinion]

Here to sprinkle some magic into your love life, one flirty tip at a time! 💫 My golden advice? Communication is always sexy for both guys and gals! Whether you're catching feelings or facing a red flag, keep the convo flowing. Never ghost your partner, and definitely don’t fall into the lovebombing trap. Innovate in love, stay genuine, and wear your heart on your sleeve. Trust me, love becomes so much sweeter when you're true to yourself and your partner! 💌

[XXblack88]

Date the person long enough to be able to know who they are on a deeper level. A relationship isn't a recs. Also make sure you really see yourself with that person long term cause divorce very costly.

[Nikki1989]

Date many and date often. Leave your options wide open and don't settle until you are 100% sure about it.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Be yourself unapologetically, challenge her to be herself unapologetically. Let her show you things, remember to keep things fun.

[i_Jedi]

For guys: stop chasing and start leading with purpose. For girls: don’t settle for potential, go for consistency. Like Jared Laurence says, attraction grows when both people show up as their best selves.

[RavVid]

I said stay single because Don't Marry Them wasn't an option and that would be my actual advice to a guy.

[slatyb]

Don't settle until you've met a lot of members of the opposite sex. You don't have to date them, you just have to know them a bit.

[bunnyboo24]

Dont be a bumm. Become a real man and get married

[Anonymous]

I lack any experience when it comes to relationships, so I really don't know.

[Sunrising]

Me too, but I've given advice some people have given to me, also I've given advice from my experience of life, whether right or wrong.
What's your experience of life?

[Opinion Owner]

It's kinda depressing, all of my loves were unrequited.
The thing is...
Girls I like - Usually don't like me back.
Girls who like me - Are usually not my type.

[Sunrising]

A guy I know beded loads of females after being on the booze at weekend.
The best usually disappeared before the morning.
Then one morning he woke up next to a gorgeous female.
She became his wife.

[Opinion Owner]

When you're on the booze, every female looks "better", but when the booze stops working... you get disappointed.
Good for him if it really worked out that way...
I wouldn't be able to do that because I don't drink alcohol, I did try many times, but it doesn't work on me (no self-confidence, only have to pee a lot, and I get sleepy).

[LiamJHayden]

Analyze the relationship logically, not emotionally or hirmonally.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Lads:Avoid fat broads!!!

Lasses: Keep FAR away from a**holes !!!

[Anonymous]

The man needs to get a vasectomy so there are no kids that are his, so the bitch cannot get child support from him.

[Jennz6]

I’m not qualified to be giving advice

[Sunrising]

With my relationship record I'm not too, but I've given my opinion anyway.

[Jennz6]

@Sunrising
Go ahead, but bad advice is not good

[Sunrising]

Cheers, thanks for the confidence boost. 🤣

[Jennz6]

@Sunrising
You said that you had a bad relationship experience

[Sunrising]

Well yes, my relationships ended, and I'm now single, but someone might still like my advice.
Perhaps?

[Jennz6]

@Sunrising
Perhaps 🤔

[noohair]

Don't take my advice...

[msc545]

Don't. Just don't.

[blackeagle007]

Sign a prenup