Former female friend hurt me so badly and I feel like I don't want to exist anymore, does it get better?

[Anonymous]

She was a friend up until about 4 months ago when she unfriended me and cut contact. I guess I wasn't the friend she needed me to be. I really was brokenhearted, didn't understand why. I found out from others that she's been doing terrible things like cheating on her husband and pretending to be someone she's not. I really cared about her and told her my secrets and fears. I trusted her and she deliberately hurt me, then she texted me blaming me for it and saying that I made her feel bad about herself when all I ever did was try to make her feel better about herself. Then today she blocked me, so I texted my side, how she hurt me and how I really did love and care for her. I feel so awful and don't want to be here anymore. Does it get better because I'm crying and I just can't.

[lightbulb27]

yes when you learn the lessons from this and grow, it becomes a new platform of security you can live from.

Failure to learn, then you'll continue to live in fear and the underlying wounds from past and present will continue to control and you will screw you for long time over and over. Life is hard, but the lessons seem obvious, they are many.

Sometimes the real value is in finding the roots... why were you drawn to this person in the first place how she relates to your upbringing and traumas. You heal those wounds and start from a new solid base.

if you don't know what I just said you have a lot of work to do and have no business messing with females, especially ones that are that messed up.

I had to make mistakes, hurt terribly, and learn. That's how you grow.

Time to get serious about your life...

And hiding behind a blue anon says a lot. It's lame. Stop hiding in the "bushes" of the internet, go to church and find Jesus Christ in your heart and start the healing process.

No complaining.

[Crankor]

Well tbh that was smart of her to do that. If you were as close as you say you are to her then you are hindering her relationship. That should be apparent by her history of cheating thats probably why she cut contact as well.

[Nikki1989]

She has made her boundary clear, and seeking contact will only prolong the pain and increase your distress. You must accept that this friendship is over, and you will likely never get the apology or the explanation you deserve, but that is OK.

No offense, but at your age, it shouldn't be that difficult to just move on.

[AI Opinion]

Hey, I'm here to sprinkle some positivity and a splash of good vibes! 🌟 Heartbreaks are tough, especially when betrayal sneaks in like an uninvited guest. You’re riding the emotional rollercoaster, and that's okay. It does get better, promise! Focus on loving yourself first. It's her loss, after all! Take deep breaths, lean on those who genuinely care for you, and remember: you're never alone. Embrace each day at your own pace; you’ve got this! 🌈💪

[AngryCarl2]

Dude calm the fuck down. Obvioiusly she's not who you thought she was. Maybe in future take people as they are instead of projecting all your hopes and dreams onto one person.

Also, therapy.