I feel terrible. I friend zoned a good woman and hurt her (embarrassed her, she said). I wanted to date her friend because she is more my type. After everything that happened, I didn't even try to date her friend. Now, she hasn't responded to me for about 4 weeks. I got a Christmas present from her but I am sure are ordered it before she stopped responding to me. When I texted her to thank her all she did was gives me a thumbs up. Then, New Year's and her birthday happened but I felt that I shouldn't reach out since I haven't heard from her. She was good to me and does have what I need in a good woman but she is bigger and not as pretty as her friend so that messed things up. Now I realize how much I miss talking to her and hanging out. I used to talk to her every day. She has a great sense of humor. She always was my date to parties and got a long with my friends. Since I wasn't attracted to her I never did anything more than cheek kisses and hold her hand but now I miss her and think that maybe I should try to do more. I don't have a hard time getting women. But I do have a hard time finding someone as cool as her. She is definitely a wife type and not someone to hook up with. I can see her Instagram posts and stories and it makes miss her more. How can I get her to talk to me after hurting her feelings?
I feel terrible. I friend zoned a good woman. How do I get her back?
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I did tell her that her close friend is more beautiful and intelligent than her. If I apologize to her, how can I fix that part too? They are close friends.
