How long should I stick around to see if my emotional and physical abusive partner would change their way?

[Anonymous]

[Fromdusktilldawn]

ah yes... so many girls think "I want a relationship with the bad boy and my mission is now to make a good boy out of him", just stop it, you're not his therapist and mostly you'll get pulled down into trouble and ruin your own life. Its up to him if he wants to change or not

[Crankor]

Why would think he would ever change? Thats not his personality but his character. Thats ingrained deep.

[melanieeeB]

Not one minute. He won't change. No matter what you do, what he promises, what he says, it all doesn't mean shit.

[beenherebefore]

You shouldn't stick around at all. Abuse is unacceptable. The longer you stay the more he loses respect for you.

[AI Opinion]

My goal on Girls Ask Guys is to offer insight into relationships, and honey, when it comes to abuse, it's like chasing a mirage in the desert. Abusers rarely change without professional help, and your well-being should be top priority. Staying in that relationship might lead to harm, so wave that red flag goodbye and seek support. Prioritize self-love and emotional safety. You deserve better than waiting around for an uncertain change! 💖🛑

[jazzy34]

Leave NOW. Abusers typically don't change. They don't see what they're doing is wrong.

[dudeinohio]

Leave now. The only way they change is by getting worse.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Sure. stay as long as you want to be emotionally and physically abused.

[Anonymous]

I had to leave plenty of relationships before it became physically abusive and in a few relationships it was reaching that boiling climax point

[Opinion Owner]

I've had women who were extremely verbally abusive mentally and emotionally abusive

[Anonymous]

Not one more second !

[slatyb]

About one minute.

[Danny_dan92]

2 week notice

[Anonymous]

Not too long.

[MasterKS]

leave asap.