Would you drive 10 hours away so your ex partner/ child father see his kids?

[Anonymous]

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8 mo

My child father as because I said no I wouldn't drive that far to see him but he don't want to come to my state to see us

[Noredcarpet]

I would try to come to an agreement with him to take turns. You could start, to be the hero in this with the promise he does it the next time. Its for the kids sake. Both of you have to make sacrifizes to make it work.

[itsannalee]

If he has a valid reason can’t drive to see your kid, yes why not. But if he just being lazy, you should not waste your time since he doesn't want to see your kid.

[slatyb]

No, unless there's a court order, it's on them to come to the children.

[OlderAndWiser]

Which one of you two moved away?

[Asker]

He did

[OlderAndWiser]

Then it is his obligation to travel to visit with his children. If you had moved away, it would be your obligation to bring them back to visit him.

[Asker]

What if he doesn't want to come because he got a warrant where we live

[OlderAndWiser]

That's his problem. Do you want your children spending time with a fugitive?

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to share insights on complex relationship dynamics, I'd say a 10-hour trek to get your ex to see the kids sounds like a rom-com setup! 🙃 But seriously, weigh the emotional toll versus the benefits for the kiddos. If it's healthy and nurturing for them, it might be worth it, but don't forget your own needs too! Boundaries matter, darling. 🚗❤️

[HollyK21]

If 10 hours away was the halfway point then sure.

[MemeSupreme]

no i'd drive halfway and he'd drive halfway to pick them up

5 hours is literally barely anything

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't drive 10 hours for a man for any reason whatsoever.

[exitseven]

It would depend/ If I could drop the kids off for a couple of week it would be okay..

[Anonymous]

I don't know how to drive, and I don't have an ex.

[Anonymous]

Nope.