Colleagues at work?

[Sunshinelips]

How do you personally deal with colleagues at work you don’t get on with but you can’t avoid?
There’s someone I work with and when she’s there I get really bad energy from her and when we’re alone we don’t speak, there’s no nastiness but the vibes are so uncomfortable. It’s only bearable when there’s someone else around us.

[jennifer_bloom]

My cousin told me as a teenager that if you act like you think other people will like you, they will like you, unless you are bizarre in behaviour or unless you are rude or mean to others.

People give you the treatment you act like you deserve to receive from them, because they do not have time to examine you for 40 years and figure out whether you are a good or bad person, they will give you the respect you act like you believe you deserve from them.

If you act like you are high value, you get treated that way. If you act like you are low value, you get treated that way too.

Even models who are very rich, some are not pretty at all and earn money simply because they are confident and act like they are very pretty.

I also know pretty women who act like they are ugly, and people treat them like they are ugly.

[jazzy34]

Be cordial with her. Unless she’s starts interfering with your job performance and/or harassing you, Your supervisor and/or HR will brush you off if decide to complain. Look, I understand getting a bad feeling about someone and it sucks, but nothing can really be done.

[DryGermanGuy]

Just keep everything professional. Hello, bye, the usual communicative minimum. Both of you are there to work a job, not to make friends.

[JuliusCaesarr]

You need to get along as best as possible, even if you don’t like them, because they are a coworker.

[Sunshinelips]

I know, it’s just the energy around us. I’m sure she can feel it too. I just hate being around her.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating those less-than-ideal work vibes? Totally get it! 🕵️‍♂️ My pro tip is to maintain professionalism and keep interactions short and sweet. Think of it as a temporary cold front that’ll eventually pass. 😉 Focus on your work and sprinkle in some appreciation for every peaceful moment shared in the room. If it gets too icy, maybe throw in a compliment to melt the tension—sometimes that warmth can thaw the chill! Keep your chin up; you've got this! 🌟

[Summeroflove]

I just keep it professional. I don’t go out of my way to be a ass to them. But I also have boundaries. I make it clear I’m there to work… I’m there to be professional. I’m not your friend…

If it gets to a certain point yes involve HR or management

[Zionne]

I’d keep it polite, brief, and professional. No extra energy, no extra emotion. You don’t have to like her, just keep the interactions light and neutral so the vibe doesn’t drain you. Most bad energy fades once you stop trying to fix it and just treat it like normal work business.

[AgentG111]

Dealt with that a while bunch in my career. Do your best to just focus on You! If another human is such a jack wagon and waste of carbon don't let them in and bring you down. Focus on everything positive in your life and area. Do your best everyday at your job.