If you could enter your partner's memories, would you? If you would, which part would you be most afraid to visit?

[HawkPerception]

[Sunrising]

We do enter people's memories on GAG's, when someone gives an opinion.

They're recollecting their personal experiences of life being retrieved, and put online.

I wouldn't want to enter a partners or someone's personal memory, other than their

re-encoutering their past through our usual form of communication.

I'm sure everyone would want some of their memories to be kept private, and anyway I wouldn't want to trespass against their permission.

[HawkPerception]

If they want to keep it private that they slept with 50+ guys before you or had a past of abusing their partner, but it's all "behind them now", you'd be cool with it?

[Sunrising]

Do you not give a person a second chance?
If you meet the perfect partner, should you be bothered, what history they had been through to arrive at their maturity?

[HawkPerception]

Some things deserve second chances. Others either don't or will make people judge you negatively. I believe if you kill someone in cold blood, you should die. If you rape someone, you should die. If you sleep with 50+ men, you'll be less desired by many. If you abuse your past partners, you don't deserve to date a good person. It's really that simple to me. Accountability for your actions in life.

[Sunrising]

So do you want to know your partners every bit of past life, before you will date them?

[Sunrising]

Is the only opinion you are looking for, the one that agrees with your opinion?

[HawkPerception]

Just because I like and agree with a specific opinion doesn't mean I'm looking for one in particular. It just means just that... that I like and agree with their opinion. Are you upset about that?

[Sunrising]

I was wondering if you liked to receive the opposite opinion to yours too, because you seemed rather strongly opposed to other people's opinions, and dismissive of our replies to the one person supportive of your opinion, and whom you give an MHO too,
Thank you for confirming I was mistaken.

[HawkPerception]

I post the questions expecting both sides, otherwise why would I post them? Just because I reply to opposing opinions questioning their logic does not make me unwelcoming of their opinions. I'm just trying to understand their logic.

And yes, I will always give MHO to opinions I agree with most. That's why they let you select opinions in the first place.

[AviatorTom]

I wouldn't be afraid of anything. It would be interesting to see her growing up, the kind of things, and people, she experienced.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[HawkPerception]

Only opinion I agreed with 😂

[Crimsyjo]

I'd hate to see anything to do with past relationships. You don't want to know if they felt enormous love for someone even if indirectly you know this was true. Because we have to live in the now. And in tje now your partner loves you and not them. There is a reason the brain does not remember ever memory in graphic detail. The past has to be let go.

[HawkPerception]

It doesn't matter if they killed others? Doesn't matter if they raped someone? Doesn't matter if they've slept with 50 plus women? Doesn't matter if they've been abusive to their past partners?

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah I probably would since I am nosy (and most guys won't tell you everything from their past) but also I'm more forgiving if I really love the person so I don't think it would change anything and it would be fun to see them younger.

[LuciusTheOdd]

You would have to ask them first honestly, Seeing someone’s memories one of the most intimate things somebody can do like I don’t know a lot of people would view that as a violating honestly and I would have to agree.


Would i give unrestricted access of my memories so the right woman? Yes, Do I think they would do the same? Oh HELL NAH.

[RandomGirl42]

It wouldn't matter to me at all since who I was yesterday isn't even the same as today. All that matters is the present moment since that's all we're ever going to get anyway. 😊

[HawkPerception]

It doesn't matter if they killed others? Doesn't matter if they raped someone? Doesn't matter if they've slept with 50 plus women? Doesn't matter if they've been abusive to their past partners?

[RandomGirl42]

If that was my partners memories than we prolly met in prison.

[HawkPerception]

Some people are good at hiding intentions and you'd be surprised at how many criminals who have committed violent acts are out on the streets because the government has lenient consequences for them.

[itsannalee]

You don’t need to tell me about your past, just be honest with me whe we start together.

[HawkPerception]

It doesn't matter if they killed others? Doesn't matter if they raped someone? Doesn't matter if they've slept with 50 plus women? Doesn't matter if they've been abusive to their past partners? Come on now... be realistic.

[HawkPerception]

Sorry I didn't mean to single you out. I should have put this as an update, because I feel everyone seems to be saying the same thing

[queenofcardio]

No thanks. I don't wanna know

[Cidknee]

HAH!!! No bleedin' way!

[Eve996]

His past life with his wife