Do you think if you could read the mind of your partner, you would likely be hurt a lot?

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imtiaz45 · Accepted Answer

Reading a partner’s mind could potentially lead to hurt feelings, as it might reveal thoughts or insecurities that aren't always shared openly. While it could enhance understanding and empathy, it could also expose fears, doubts, or criticisms that might be painful to hear. Healthy relationships are built on trust and communication, where feelings are expressed openly rather than read telepathically. The nuances of human interactions often require context and interpretation, which mind-reading might bypass, possibly leading to misunderstandings. Emotional vulnerability is a key part of intimacy, and navigating it through honest dialogue is generally healthier than reading minds.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I think that unfortunately a lot of people build a lot of resentment because they don’t know how to communicate. A lot of relationships are not healthy at all.

As well as when cheating is involved. I think that men in toxic relationships if they knew what the woman really thinks of him, much less what she says behind his back. Because I’ve had women both tell me and overheard them say horrendous things about their significant other. Why the hell are you with him?

Don’t get me wrong. There are dudes who do this too. If people would just be honest. Don’t be a coward. Just be honest about how you feel.

Sunnysunny123 · Accepted Answer

Yes to an extend also he would be hurt if he could read mine too.

I want to add to these people daying they know their partner so good that they could guess their toughts, trust me you are wrong. Starting from myself, my partner knows me very good too but what i have going through my mind all day every day would hurt a lot of people not just him.

Those that say people don't think bad of you, everyone does it just doesn't necessarily have to be bad bad it may just be something that you don't like and/or YOU perceive it as hurtful but not the other person.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Not in regards to me personally, but I think his overall childhood leaves him hurt a lot. I would honestly be intrigued to be able to read his mind

DishLady · Answer

With my ex hubby, yeah. He was pure poison. With my ex boyfriend? Nah, he was a sweetie with a bit of a one-track mind. I could already guess what he was thinking 9/10 times.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Not really

I had the weird ability to know when my ex lied to me. I dont know how. He would keep a straight face and say he is telling the truth but I would know he isn't. Then later on I would find out he lied and in some weird way that gave me comfort.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yea i think people keep their thoughts to themselves for a reason. Im constantly judgmental in my head. I try to be cordial out loud but if someone read my mind, they’d be somewhere crying

SugarSugarplum · Answer

If you could read my mind it would sound like this: That girl's top is pretty I wish my shoes didn't hurt I really feel like God loves me today Is it cold?

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Since reading doesn't mean comprehending, then yes, it could hurt me. In any case, I don't wish to be kicked out or trespass the garden of a mind's intimacy. Both ways.

exitseven · Answer

I used to work for a company where the majority of employees were women. These women used to trash their husbands all the time. i guess a lot of these guys deserved it but that's another story, but they would say the most horrible thing about their spouses.

BetaBucks · Answer

There's a lot of denial here. People would be devastated when they hear that their SO wants to blow/lick someone else that's younger/fitter.

itsannalee · Answer

With my ex boyfriend yeah…. How my boyfriend I think i will find out how much problems in his mind.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I don't think so, I am a pretty easy going personality type and it is rare for me to say something that causes anyone I'm with to tear-up.

dustybiker2 · Answer

No. They are the most thoughtful person I've known.

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

Just the opposite, it would give me confirmation of how wonderful I am.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Yes. With anyone really. We suppress a lot. Lord knows all of us who aren't self-employed would be fired before noon.

hahahmm · Answer

No, 1.) because I would be smart enough not to use that power. 2.) Even if I did I know thoughts are supposed to be personal. What matters are actions.

Dongie · Answer

Yes. You might know what she is thinking but it's another thing to be hearing it

Chevy1_kb · Answer

When I read the mind of partner who is now my ex I was hurt I could tell he was cheating prick

Luopio27 · Answer

If such tech would ever exist, nothing good will ever cone out of it. Politics, war, psychiatry and other things have proven tine and time again that no human being is worth that power.

Miristheiss · Answer

I think everyone on earth would be hurt if they knew the thoughts of everyone in their life.

Ladsin2 · Answer

I think everyone would. Unless your woman is just infatuated with you she'll think of other men which will upset you. If you're a women you'd like have some revulsion about what your man thinks about.

dudegreat91 · Answer

I doubt. I don't think my previous partners disliked me

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No he's very open about his feelings with me

Cheerfull009 · Answer

If your mind is negative and possible

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