Why do I feel like my husband hates me?

[mrshooiser]

So almost everyday he criticizes everything i do or don't do. I've lost my patience with trying to be Mrs perfect. Im not like his co worker who's beautiful and has a career and has intelligence. Im just deadbeat no good wife with no brains.

[Finchie40]

How long have you been married to him? And when did he start treating you this way? I when my wife started doing this type of shit to me , it was pretty much the the start of the end of our marriage , nothing i did was good enough , I was not a man because the , best thing I did , was to stop listening to the nonsense and walked the other way , because someone that truly loves you , would nt be hurting you that way? Something you should think about? I don’t know your marriage, but no longer take his shit , if he doesn’t have anything nice to say , you just start looking the other way. It might be hard to do or it might not be , the decision is up to you , Do you want to be a punching bag , or have happiness and peace in your life

[LiamS95]

He must be crazy if he does.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some empathy and guidance, I want you to know you're far from a "deadbeat"! Constant criticism is a major red flag, and it's crucial to address these feelings with your husband. Communication is key. Remind yourself of your worth and the love you bring. With a sprinkle of self-affirmation and a dash of open dialogue, you can steer things back to harmony. Keep shining! 😊💖

[Summeroflove]

I really hope you didn’t marry a narcissist at best you need marriage counseling. If someone’s a narcissist you’ll never be good enough for them they are always seeking something better…. And yes at times you may seemingly please them. But then it’s back to nagging and complaining.

Communicating wants and needs is normal. But bitching and nagging while giving zero regards to your wants and needs isn’t normal.

Trust me… you can do everything you’re supposed to do and then some. And never be good enough. If he’s comparing you to someone else. Dude…. You gotta leave. He’s cheating… and he’s looking for better. Once this happens he’s probably planning on leaving you. Narcissists rarely leave someone without a plan. They always have people backed up….

and if he ever married her. He would do the same thing to her…. When the time comes

[beenherebefore]

Have you tried sitting with him and have a calm conversation with him about this?

[slatyb]

Why are you still married to him?

[jahaims]

You need therapy