Is this some kind of abuse?

[Alxve]

Lets say you have a partner, who has anger management issues. Now every argument with them feels like a hurtful war. Since even if they are wrong they won't take accountability. And im this heated moment they use offensive swear words. Like "F*** you" or "I hate you".
Would you consider this as a normal anger in relationship?
Or a sort of abuse? [I think Verbal Abuse]

Updates

5 mo

And to stop triggering them, you are walking on eggshells.

[sage2021]

It not only verbal and emotional abuse but it is very hurtful 💔 for the person on the receiving end of the abuse.

Personally, I would not waste another day of my life with someone like that. Life is too short and you weren't born to be abused!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you’re unhappy, leave

[AviatorTom]

Some things are sad in anger that should not be taken personally.

In any relationship, there are some angry moments.

It's important to understand your partner and learn to live with it.

[NathanDavis]

anger issues are not normal at all... that should be obvious, lol

and that's why it is called an issue

[AI Opinion]

Hey love-seeker! 🌹 If your partner's words feel like they're waging war on your emotions, that's definitely a red flag! 🚩 Verbal insults like "F*** you" and "I hate you" cross the line from anger management issues to verbal abuse. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect and accountability. You're worthy of love and kindness, not hurtful battles. Keep shining and protect your heart! ❤️👏

[loveslongnails]

It's not normal, it is abuse, and it's a giant red flag. If your partner doesn't recognize that and won't take steps to fix it, I suggest you find a new partner ASAP, as in yesterday.

[Anonymous]

Yes, sounds like verbal abuse, you're right.

[Staximus]

Definitely, time to fly the coop

[beefcakebradybatson]

They call you Coop? Is your name Cooper? (Happy 19th birthday, Cooper Flagg!!!)

[Staximus]

@beefcakebradybatson what are you talking about Beefsteak haha

[beefcakebradybatson]

D**N SKIPPY !!! DUMP DAT DOLL OR DUDE !!!

[DonaldDarko]

No that's not normal, that's psychotic.

[In_Trance]

If you think it's abuse, why haven't you ended it?

[Alxve]

I am not so sure. I never been in this kind of situation. So I lack the experience to know if normal people do this.
And I needed some outside validation if it truly is.
And that relationship is no more there..

[In_Trance]

If someone says those words, you go your separate ways and never look back. No discussion, no closure. Block them and move on

[Alxve]

Okay thank you, I was conflicted since I thought this was how couples fight..
Since as I said I never encountered a partner like this so it was confusing.
Also I really deeply loved her so it was harder to accept that it was abuse.