Backstory: i met this guy through a dating app ik bad idea he seemed so sweet at first and so kind he was gentle and seemed like a perfect guy but he had a temper on him, if he was told anyhting he didn't want to hear he would flip his shit at his parents and he would scream yell puch fence borads walls etc like xtremem anger issues, after a few mounths the anger started showing it got progressivelly worse, the yelling and screaming became consistent to the point i would feel the need to defend myself in fear he would hit me. he would scream and lose his shit on me for any little thing to the point i was living in fear that if i didn't give him what he wanted he would lose his temper and hurt me, i walked on eggshells everyday tip toing around him. i have had to stand toe to toe with this man screaming in his face so he would back off and leave me alone it was a constant thing. any little thing that didn't even involve me he would lose his shit on to me and scream at me and then blame me and tell me its my fault for not listening or some other reason everything was always my fault, it got to a point i hung out with one of my best freinds and felt safe enough to dump him he ddint take it well he stayed in my house refused to leave was sleeping in my room on my bed while i slept in the office on decoritive pillows for about a week i had enough and told him he had to leave he flipped his shit on me i told him he can leave civially or i will have to call the police he got enraged quickly i went to respind to my freind he came towards me screaming at me not to call the cops and if it do he will lose his shit implying he would hrt me he tried to grab my phone out of my hands i immedielty went into fight or flight mode started screaming in his face and called the police i have debated getting a restraining order on him, he still tells me its my fault because i called the cops and its my fault this mess happened.
Is this considered abuse?
