Have you ever been spanked by your partner? Do you think it's weird?

[Anonymous]

I had my first experience in my late 30's. For a silly reason, over the knees. My fiance did it. It happens rarely now: sometimes when wrestling, when I'm acting up etc. I actually like it but I don't know why. It doesn't really hurt and I want that to happen more often.

[Anonymous]

I have discovered through experience that most straight women get off on being spanked (or paddled, as it turns out). Studies show that's true, too.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4379392/

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19546233/spanking-during-sex/

[sawno]

As a fetish I don't think its weird, have fun you two!
But outside of play I do think its weird, make sure your partner isn't actually controlling or abusive.

[Asker]

Oh about that, we’ve been through stressful situations together, and he’s always stayed calm and thoughtful.
If anything, he’s the more level-headed one when life gets messy.
This kind of thing (spanking) always happens during fun times, playfully.

[sawno]

Sounds healthy and enjoyable for both of you then, its not my natural dom style but if I know my partner is in to it i'd happily integrate it into the play.

[Asker]

Yeah. I guess he understood I like it and that's why he slowly integrates it into our life together. Like I said, he rarely does it. I receive more threats than that the actual follow through. 😂 I can't complain. That's funny too

[Anonymous]

Many times. I love it, but I couldn't explain exactly why. But it does feel good physically and mentally.

[Simslover92]

I have and it's a great feeling. Can't really describe it other than it feels great.

[Asker]

Yeah I can't really find the word either. I feel way more connected, I guess

[HawkPerception]

I've spanked all of my partners except my first ex. I've definitely gotten more dominant sexually as I've gotten older. They all enjoy being subs too, so the dynamic works.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl, we don’t need to hear about your spanking kink

[Asker]

Girl, you don't have to read. Let alone reply

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Fortunately not, imitating any form of corporal punishment turns me off instantly and irremediably

[Anonymous]

When it comes to sex, we spank each other all the time. This whole discipline thing, hell no.

[Asker]

Yeah that happens too but he spanks me.
It's not real discipline, it's always done playfully

[Anonymous]

Lol right. First experience in your late thirties and your profile says you are (30-35).

[Asker]

Well yeah. I'm 33. I was 30 👌

[In_Trance]

It's not for everybody but at the same time it's not weird either

[Asker]

Well yeah. We are all different and that's okay

[queenofcardio]

It's amazing during role playing.

[Asker]

U do role play? I would do it with my man but I don't know how to actually start (shy) ? Like you guys talk before hand about it? What kind of role play?

[Anonymous]

Well it depends on how bad of a girl you've been how naughty you were

[DryGermanGuy]

Some girls like it. So they get it. 🙌😈

[beefcakebradybatson]

NO AND H**L TO THE YEAH !!!

[MasterKS]

butt deserve spanking.

[Asker]

Agree

[MasterKS]

if i see a nice butt i just want to spank it and watch it shaking. such a turn on.