Have you ever been spanked unexpectedly by your boyfriend/husband? Why and what was your reaction?

[Anonymous]

For example : my partner has the "demerits" list in his mind. Each demerit equals a trip over his knee for offenses like being messy or giving him attitude. So , once in a while
he drags me over his knee, when I least expect it. One occurance was right after having dinner at the restaurant. I was acting up and he was very calm about it. He drove all the way to an empty parking lot. Told me to get out of the truck, dragged me to the back seat and he spanked me for a while. My ass was red, red. I always get turned on and that leads to an wild sex. I do behave for weeks until that happens again so it's a win win situation
Any other people here who have a similar story?

[Lliam]

I do love swatting a woman's bare ass. It's one of my kinks.

Their roundness is just so spankable. And my hand is big enough to cover an entire cheek.
They jiggle and slosh when swatted. And turning their tender flesh bright pink is a turn on.

Most of my girlfriends didn't mind being swatted during doggy style, and some liked it a lot.
But I had one girlfriend who loved being spanked. Sometimes she would bend over a table or desk. And she would even bend over my knee. She would kick her heels, wriggle and squeal as I held her in place and spanked her, but she wouldn't cry uncle. It made her wet and I would take breaks to finger her.
Afterwards, she would either suck my dick enthusiastically or I would fuck the daylights out of her.

I can swat my wife's ass gently during doggy-style. But one time I tried throwing her over my knee and spanking her and she scratched and bit me. LOL

[Finchie40]

Yes , i been with a few girls’ that loved when I put them over my knees and smacked them for being a bad girl , they all got turned on and the sex was amazing , I love submissive girls’

[Alicia007]

My br recently informed me that I will need to behave according to his standards or he would discipline me. He initiated a serious heart-to-heart talk with me. Reluctantly, I agreed as there is no way I’m letting him go. So far I’ve done exactly as he’s asked and no problems whatsoever. But I know that first time is coming and I’m not sure how I’ll react. My guess is I’ll get through it. I hate to say this but I hope I’ll be able to meet expectations. No idea how the discipline is going to be administered - no sightings of any paddling implements or the like.

[Asker]

It sounds like you’re processing some complicated feelings about this dynamic, and it’s good you’re reaching out instead of keeping it bottled in. I want to give you thoughtful feedback, but also check in: when you say “discipline,” do you mean this in the sense of a consensual relationship dynamic (like Domestic Discipline or D/s), or are you talking about something that feels more like control without your say?

Because there’s a really big difference:

Consensual dynamics (even if they include rules, consequences, or discipline) are based on trust, communication, and you always having the right to say no.

Controlling or coercive dynamics cross into unhealthy territory if you don’t feel you can withdraw consent, renegotiate, or speak up safely.

Here’s some advice you might hear from another woman who’s navigated a relationship with rules/discipline:

1. Consent : Just because you agreed in a heart-to-heart talk doesn’t mean you gave up your right to renegotiate later. You’re not “locked in.”

2. Clarity is key–Before any discipline happens, you deserve to know what it will look like. Mystery breeds anxiety. Ask him calmly and directly: “What does discipline mean to you? What exactly would happen if I don’t meet expectations?”

3. Safe words or signals – If this really is a chosen dynamic, it’s standard to agree on a stop word or gesture so you can pause things if they get too intense.

4. Balance matters–Discipline should never overshadow love, respect, and care. If you feel like you’re walking on eggshells just to avoid punishment, that’s a red flag.

5. Check in with yourself–How does your body feel when you think about this? Excited? Nervous but safe? Or tense, scared, trapped? Your instincts are worth listening to.

[Asker]

Also how old is he?

[CarolinaGirl5]

So basically you're being used and abused and after he's done he's going to kick you to the curb for a beautiful, respectable woman that he travels the world with.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Congrats you're being used

[AI Opinion]

My goal here is to add a playful twist to the conversation. It sounds like you and your partner have found a spicy dynamic that turns discipline into desire. 😉 As long as this is consensual and brings joy to both of you, it’s like adding a pinch of excitement to the recipe for your relationship. Just ensure boundaries are respected—unleashing that wild side is always more fun when everyone’s onboard! 👏 Keep that passion alive!🔥

[Makeushiver]

Tell me that, s you in the photo. Not only n will you get spanked all over but you will get plenty not detention. You may even have to clap the erasers before I tie you to the bed posts and force you to cum all night whether you want to or. mot. u

[Nikki1989]

I couldn't care less.