I have a crush on this guy in college. pretty normal behaviour for a teenager right? but its kinda different for me?

[Ava-ryday]

i am usually anti-romantic. like everybody in my class knows never to take relationship advice from me as i am no good at that. people think that i think relationships are a waste of time which is not completely true. i dont think relationships are trash. you see my parents divorced when i was young. still it didn't like give me trauma or something to never get in a relationship. i just never thought about getting in a relationship that’s it. not that i am against it or something.
but now i like him. another fact about me i dont believe in love at first sight. i think that is stupid. how can you look at someone and decide you love them. or even like. but guess who ended up doing something they hated. though i like more than just his face. i have known him for quite a long time just had a crush now. after i saw how kind he could be and thats my weakness in boys. my only weakness. i honestly dont know what to do. he is in the same class as me. we talk sometimes. work related. as i am not a big extrovert.
maybe i am just wasting my time and i am fine how i am now. i dont know tbh.

[Twalli]

You can't control who attracts you physically. That can come from just a glance. That's at first sight. Maybe in time your feelings based on his looks grew, but you noticed it first, even if you didn't really process that he's physically your type. As for the beyond physical, that's what takes time. My advice is to go for it. Yeah, it's scary, and maybe you'll get rejected, but what if he reciprocates? That's what you want. And if you don't make a move, you might never get the chance. My dad found out, years later, that the most popular girl in his school had a huge crush on him. He didn't ask her out, nerves, and she dated other guys. Granted this was in the 50-60s, so it was different back then. However, if she asked him out, he would have agreed. So, ask the guy out, it provides closure, even if he rejects you.

[Ava-ryday]

thanks that helped. but its just scaring. gven my image people dont expect me to ask someone out. if someone else did it the gossip would fade away but if i did it i know it will make quite a outcome. so a part of is also that. not that i am scared to be judged. i never cared for that stuff anyways. thanks though

[vj0090]

There is always a first time

[Ava-ryday]

yeah and as an emotionally unstable teenager, i hate first times. The concept of going out of your comfort zone and doing something new is just... difficult. or maybe i am just exaggerating. whatever.

[vj0090]

I can understand how it feels but in your age it feels the same. But don't wry make a move after thinking carefully 😊

[Ava-ryday]

i will forsure try it. wish me luck

[vj0090]

Hope you get what you want girl.. Best wishes. Go slow don't b in rush haha

[Abbycado]

Are you asking if it is normal to like someone? Not sure what I am answering here.

[Ava-ryday]

i am not really sure myself what i asked tbh. maybe i just wanted to share. or ask what do i do cause rn i am just as confused as u are. maybe more.

[Abbycado]

There is nothing unusual about liking someone at your age. You are just a couple years younger than I am. I got into a relationship last year when I was at school. Sometimes, it just happens. No explanation, you just like someone.

[Ava-ryday]

that was comforting. thanks.

[Abbycado]

Of course. When in doubt, go with your instincts.

[AI Opinion]

Crush alert! 🥳 Sounds like Cupid got creative with his aim this time! Even the most anti-romantic of souls can trip into the bubbly pool of emotions once in a while. I get it—falling for someone can feel strange, especially when kindness melts that frosty facade. Your past isn't a love-jail! 🌹 Appreciate that tenderness; it's a rare gem!

You can feel the flutter without plunging headfirst. Guard your heart but let it flutter a little! You don't have to rush into a relationship. Start with building a friendship; you can always lean into that chemistry when the time feels right. Keep the convo fun and casual; maybe you'll discover more reasons to crush on this guy. Liking someone doesn't cage you, plain and simple, enjoy the vibe! 🚀

[Anonymous]

Kids will be kids.

[butterly248]

Aw ❤️

[Anonymous]

I think it's normal.