How do you explain to a 40 yro women that she's to old for a 40 yro man to take seriously because she can't give him kids?

[Vegasrunner]

[Summeroflove]

That’s different for everyone. Women can have kids in their 40s maube not as easily then before. But let’s face it…. Plenty of women can find men in their 40s. Men who are divorced and already have children and men who just don’t really want children or don’t have to have them.

If a man wants kids or more kids. Higher risk of not having kids after 40 but it does still happen. The issue is if people can find themselves someone compatible.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove If a man wants kids he needs to find a younger woman to reduce risk of birth defects.

[Summeroflove]

That may be true. If a man’s wanting kids especially if he wants a lot of kids. That may be more compatible

[BonzoInBitburg]

I've never told the full truth when I've rejected a woman. Make up something similar to the old "It's not you, it's me."

[Anonymous]

The now 40 yo man should have married the now 40 yo woman and had kids with her 20 years ago. If he’s no longer able to have kids with women his own age he waited too long to have them.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous He can always just get a 20 something year old woman. There's no such thing as a man waiting to long.

[goaded]

"Children with older fathers are at a higher risk for genetic abnormalities, paediatric malignancies, and neuropsychiatric problems."
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9957550/

[Vegasrunner]

@goaded Even of that were true a man can impregnate several women simultaneously increasing his chances of having a healthy child. A woman is stuck risking it all on one child every 9 months.

[goaded]

Me: Posts scientific paper in reputable journal
You: "Even of that were true..."

[Anonymous]

You just explain to her that you dont want to be having a 40 year old man's kid because of the links to 40 year old new fathers and down syndrome and autism.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Doest make sense the question as how do you let a 40 yro woman know she's too old?

[Opinion Owner]

But she's not. 40 year old men shouldn't be having children.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner 40 is much to old for a woman to have kids, it would be a very high risk. Men can have kids till the day they die.

[Opinion Owner]

Men eventually are infertile usually around 50 but before that at 40 their sperm quality degrades and the risk of children they have having special needs increases.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Its unfortunate you've been lied to. Men can have kids til the day they die. Also men can impregnate as many women as they want which decreases the chance of having kids with special needs. A women can only bring one kid to term so her risk is so much more. So a 40 year old women would be risking everything on one child while a 40 yro man can impregnate as many women as they want.

[Opinion Owner]

Extensive research across different countries consistently demonstrates an association between an older paternal age and increased autism risk. Large-scale studies, including a comprehensive analysis of over 5.7 million children, have revealed that children with fathers in their 40s face about a 28% higher likelihood of autism, while those with fathers in their 50s face a 66% increased risk compared to children of fathers under 30.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner probably more difficult to run those numbers on women because very few can even have children after 40.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help sprinkle a little compassion and understanding on your question. Age is just a number, and relationships are about connection, not just procreation. Assuming someone isn't taken seriously due to age and fertility is a major red flag. Relationships thrive on love, compatibility, and mutual respect—babies or not! Let’s not ghost the beautiful connections that can bloom regardless of age. Wouldn't you agree, love? 😉❤️

[Hagar88]

Was looking at a girl i used to date growing up recently. She is 3 years older than me. Used to be super skinny, she had a few kids Anyway I ran into her in the pub at Christmas, she turned 40 last and my God is she is looking fine. That ass has grown, thick hips and thighs, bigger boobs and still the same pretty face. I would be tempted to take a walk down memory lane, and by memory lane I mean smashing her back door in.

[Anonymous]

Dude wtf is wrong with you? Seriously? The woman i love Danielle is 41 she's not "to old" she happens to be a blessing and just because someone can't have kids doesn't and shouldn't disqualify someone from being a potential partner and a potential love and even soulmate & twin flame

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Sorry to hear you can't have kids w/ the woman you love. Hopefully you can find a younger woman.

[Opinion Owner]

You need help sime serious mental help

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Because I want a women who can have kids?

[Opinion Owner]

You need professional help you really do. Would you want a young or older woman rejecting you because you can't have kids. You may be 48 or whatever BUT you have A LOT of growing up and maturing to do before you ever bring or raise a child in this world

[Opinion Owner]

Just because a woman can't have kids anymore you should still love her all the same not any less especially if the situation is beyond her control. Things happen in life but she still deserves all the love and support in the world even if she can't have children anymore.
You got a lot of growing up and maturing to do

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner The difference is if a woman rejected me, it would simply been seen as her preference. However when I man displays his preference he receives nonsensical arguments like the one you are attempting to make. I would argue that it is you who lack maturity since you are ignoring biology in favor of your emotions.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Plesse just stop. If a man wants children he has every right to find a woman who is able tp do so, unfortunately older women aren't. This is the type of toxic advice losers attempt to give to men telling them they shouldn't have standards. I've built myself up to put myself in the position to choose the woman I want and I wouldn't choose and older damaged woman who isn't able to provide healthy children. How you feel about that is irrelevant.

[Opinion Owner]

The only person who's damaged is YOU and by your asinine replies it shows you severe lack of maturity and understanding about the opposite sex. If you want to procreate and reproduce then go jerkoff at a sperm donor clinic. But judging by what kind of asinine incel clown you are i highly doubt any woman would want to reproduce with the likes of you

[Opinion Owner]

And just for the record several months ago some slob called Danielle damaged goods... i spent hours upon hours reassuring her she wasn't and i told that son of a bitch who really upset her that if he ever talked to her like thst again and disrespected her like that again he'd find himself at the bottom of an ocean swimming with the fish. Point is you love and support and help those you love and care about and give them the support they need not just go around looking to get your little pecker fucked like you're doing

[Opinion Owner]

You never know what people are going through or dealing with on the inside and when you call someone damaged it can really upset them and effect them in a negative manner. Someone did that to Danielle said that horrible thing to her and i spent hours upon hours reassuring her she wasn't that she's still a wonderful and amazing and loving woman and that she's not damaged she's her simply wonderful her not broken not damaged just a wonderful loving and amazing person and soul. That's what you do you support those you love not treat them with disrespect and look to grt your little pecker laid

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner I've literally been with over 400 women how many have you been with?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner she's damaged goods and if you ever tried me, I would beat your back teeth in. Perhaps she's what you have to settle for but not what HV men have to settle for.

[Opinion Owner]

And your throat would be slit by your juggular

[Opinion Owner]

And your throat would be slit by your juggular and you'll be left in a pool of your own blood then you'll be the one who's damaged goods not me not her just you

[Opinion Owner]

You ever have ice picks ran through your eye sockets or a blow torch to your tongue? Keep talking as much shit as you are and it'll happen to you then you'll be damaged goods

[Opinion Owner]

You ever have battery acid poured over your face... keep running your stupid mouth then you'll be the damaged goods

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Lol, I would be interested in seeing how that works out for you. You can't even get a fertile woman let alone how you going to handle a Type A Male?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner You watch too many movies. Please let me catch one of you weirdos IRL

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Why is that what happened to Danielle?

[Opinion Owner]

Not that it's any of your business but neither one of us can have kids because of health reasons

[Opinion Owner]

Not that it's any of your business but she and I can't have any kids due to health reasons but i still love her with all my heart and soul and NEVER ONCE considered her broken or as damaged goods

[Opinion Owner]

If anything i continue to love her and support her regardless if she can have kids or not

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner All the more reason to date younger women.

[Opinion Owner]

You really don't get it. It's about connection and being able to love and support your partner no matter what she may be going through. You got a lot to learn and a lot of growing up to do

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Sounds like you don't get it. If you dont want to have children then thats 100% your decision but trying to tell men that they should sacrifice their wants for someone else is morally wrong. If a man wants kids and the woman is to old he has every right to replace her.

[Opinion Owner]

Do yourself a favor and don't get involved with any woman. And one last thing i hope karma comes back at you a 1000x hard and worse with the way you treat women

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Im involved with several women. I hope Karma does come back because there's nothing wrong with a man having a choice in the women he wants to spend his time with. Maybe you got hit with Karma for being a beta and are now stuck with a woman who can't give you kids?

[Opinion Owner]

I love her and that's all that matters. Whether she can or can't have kids anymore is irrelevant to me and how i feel about her. And by the way you might want to look in the mirror because the only pathetic beta is you especially for trying to convince yourself of the irrelevant bullshit you been spewing this whole time

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner If you think a man having respect for himself is irrelevant then it makes sense why you can't get a real woman.

[Opinion Owner]

If anything your views and narrow-minded way of thinking is irrelevant

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner in a way you have a point so many guys nowadays will settle for anything that the thought of a man having standards triggers people so much.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Unless she's a VERY early menopause victim or had a hysterectomy, a 40-year-old woman should be able to safely bear children, though my mother wouldn't;she was 39 when my younger sister was born.

[goaded]

You don't, because it's not necessarily true, and you'd be an asshole.

[Vegasrunner]

@goaded Its very true a woman is a great risk having children at that age.

[goaded]

It's a risk at any age, and you claimed it was impossible "she can't give him kids".

[Vegasrunner]

@goaded If its a risk at aby age that simply means its an even bigger risk as she gets older.

[Anonymous]

I agree on this one.