Her ex husband is calling her everytime is this normal? PLEASE advice?

[warwolf1304hh]

So i'm dating this woman shi is divorced with a daughter, we are having good times and stuff, but i have noticed that her ex husband is calling her, not only this but when she answeres he ask her where are you or what you are doing, after hanging up he call her video call, and when we drive to her house she keep saying chose they other he might be in front of the house, i ask her did he ever came to your house she says no, he talk to her about her girlfriend and stuff, but i do not understand , she is telling me i do not wanna tell him i have a boyfriend because if he knows he will stop letting me see my daughter or if i'm busy and i want him to have her he will refuse to, can you please advice, i am not comfortable i want a peacfull realtionship and not this, what do you think is this guys?

[Abbycado]

Then don’t be in this relationship. Simple.

[Selene1600000]

This isn’t a peaceful setup her ex still has a lot of control, and she’s not setting clear boundaries with him. Her fear about access to her daughter may be real, but it also means you’re stepping into ongoing drama that won’t disappear quickly. You should be honest that you’re uncomfortable and only continue if she’s willing to create firm boundaries and a stable situation.

[Anonymous]

Wow you really are dumb or nieve she's not divorced she's still married and lied to you about it and yes he still lives with her in that house

[Hagar88]

Might not be divorced or is keeping the ex around.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating a relationship with someone who has an ex can be tricky, especially when there are kids involved! 🚗 Sounds like there's some uncomfortable tension with her ex, and it might feel like you're in a romantic soap opera. She seems concerned about maintaining a balanced co-parenting situation, which is understandable. Still, your feelings are totally valid! 🍿 Communication with her is key here. Express your discomfort gently and find a way that can make both of you feel at ease. Love is about being on the same team, after all! 💕

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's normal.

[In_Trance]

Move on