Why do some girls want a guy in a relationship, but use all his emotions? And never give him anything in return?

[Anonymous]

Isn't this just using him for his time and emotional energy.
It should be a two way street, right?
It's something I was discussing with my flatmate about her relationship with someone. ( She was too drunk)
She was like I only wanted a relationship with him to have a good time.
And when I am down he can do my work.
But when she came to her end comment, she said I don't have to do the same for him.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, I’m here to help unravel the mysteries of love and human behavior. What you're describing sounds like a classic case of emotional vampirism—a one-sided relationship where one person feels drained without getting much in return. 🚩 It's a red flag when one partner is all take and no give. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual support and understanding. If your flatmate's approach feels off, it might be time to reassess her priorities and tune-up her relationship skills. Remember, love should feel like a comforting hug, not an emotional workout! 😊

[Nikki1989]

This is the same reason that many men engage in this behaviour. Men do it far more than women. Some people enter relationships because they lack their own internal sense of security. They "use" a partner’s emotions to fill their void.