Are you embarrassed to say that you want a relationship?

[BCRanger10]

If you are single now but want to be in a relationship, do you feel embarrassed to say so? Or have you ever felt that way? If so, why?

[DishLady]

No. I just say that if it's God's will to allow me to be in a relationship then it will happen. And if it's not in the cards... then it's just not. Relationships can't be forced into existence.

[Gobbyjobby52]

A little bit of me, yes. I was worried i'd lose the driving wheel and that side of me would be exposed. I kind of got teased about it a lot as a kid by my parents and it still sticks today. And having had visited incel and redpill sites as a teen i now feel like im needy, desperate and self entitled to want it when im real about it to myself.

[OlderAndWiser]

When I was single, I was very candid about my goal of finding a long-term partner. I set aside those childish games/hiding the truth many decades ago.

[Agape93]

Nope. If I'm lonely, then I'll say I'm lonely.

[Anonymous]

I am not embarrassed that I am finding someone.
I am ashamed that even tho I changed my looks, teeth body shape in 3 difficult years of my life and never had a single relationship.
It hurts me everyday that I never get picked. Never get any date online, at library or bars.
I am looking for love from when I was 15.
Just to get loved.
I changed cities, location, jobs.
And now I have changed country.
And still it's the same😕 something might be too wrong with me.
It's not in my cards I guess. So now I have just given up genuinely.
I try to stay away from women now.
Cause they mostly used me and take advantage of my kindness.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm kinda thinking twice about it tbh

[BCRanger10]

About pursuing one?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea, I think of all the things it will require and I think I have to prioritize a lot of things before prioritizing a relationship.

[exitseven]

being in a relationship is nothing to be embarrassed about.

[Grond21]

No, I was never embarrassed to say I wanted a relationship in the past.

[queenofcardio]

Nope. Everyone knows I'm looking

[soe11]

• No not at all.