Why are my married friends always miserable while my single friends are enjoying their best lives?

[Vegasrunner]

[HighValue]

The majority of the time, women make people's lives worse with more stress, drama, and financial hardship. It makes sense for the majority of single men to be happier without being married.

Also FYI, if you ever hear about the lie of "married men live longer," they conveniently leave out the part that divorced men (had kids and resources taken from them) are the ones dying early, but single (never married without any kids) men live LONGER than women.

[Vegasrunner]

@HighValue Very good point

[RavVid]

Thank you for those stats. Makes sense.

[RavVid]

Essentially women have always sought resources from men. Back in the tribal days it was a regular bacon supply. Life was good back then.

The unfortunate thing is the past has no value. It is now only what you could (& need to) supply into the future that only has value and gets credit from women.

Single guys just need to invest in themselves so of course they are going to be happier.

[Vegasrunner]

@RavVid Excellent point.

[RavVid]

Thanks for the mho. It was a point that I saw in my travels. Women do mostly receive so it makes sense they look to what is coming and not so much to what has been given.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you don't see everything. And it is not your business.

If everything is so miserable why do they stay married?

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous That a great question. Typically men are more loyal and willing to stay arrived out of a sense of duty. Women will destroy their family simply because of how they feel. However I think you're probably right I should tell my married friends they should get divorced.

[Rei13]

That is on the people you’re surrounding yourself with tbh

[Vegasrunner]

@Rei13 Very good point, all my single friends are really happy, so you're saying tell my married friends to get a divorce?

[Rei13]

That’s not what I said and you are welcome to say/do whatever you want

[Vegasrunner]

@Rei13 huh you literally said that it's on the people im surrounding myself with. Well if thats the case shouldn't I want my married friends to be happy like my single friends?

[AI Opinion]

Hey, navigating this love maze, huh? 😉 I’m here to help you unravel these relationship mysteries. Married life can come with added responsibilities and challenges, which might lead to stress if not handled well. It requires a lot of teamwork, patience, and communication. On the other hand, single friends might have more freedom and fewer constraints, so they seem happier. 🤷‍♂️ But remember, happiness looks different for everyone, and what you see isn’t always the full picture! It's all about what works best for someone personally. ❤️

[AviatorTom]

Methinks you have the wrong married friends and should get some new married friends that aren't so miserable.

[Vegasrunner]

@AviatorTom My friends are my friends married or not. Im simply more interested to know why the married ones are so much more miserable than the single ones.

[AviatorTom]

@Vegasrunner My point is that not all married couples are miserable, and that maybe you just have a bad sample of married friends. Thinking more about it, could it be that your perception is that they are miserable... because you prefer the single life and don't really understand the benefits of marriage?

[Vegasrunner]

@AviatorTom I think I understand your confusion. Im not making the argument that "all" married men are miserable, just the ones I know. However conversely in that same friend group all the single ones are loving their life. This isn't my perception its what they have articulated to me.

[truthteller234]

@Vegasrunner

no one gives a rat's shit about you when you are single.

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 For women thats probably true because women are judged by the value of man they can retain.

[truthteller234]

@Vegasrunner

not anymore. Almost half of all women 18-44 would be unmarried by 2030. Women don't want to get married or have kids anymore.

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 Thats because mire and more men are reluctant to settle down w/ modern women. Most of those women would love to he married but they aren't able to retain a man they love, admire and respect. This is why we are seeing the highest antidepressants use from that exact demographic.

[truthteller234]

@Vegasrunner

thats also why men are dying earlier. because studies show that married men tend to live longer lives than single men. unmarried women live longer lives than married women

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 Thats another fallacy that has been falsely reported. Those numbers include divorced men as single which doesn't factor in that they are more stressed and lose resources. What I find interesting is that when it comes to anecdotal evidence, my single friends are much happier than my married ones, yet that has been ignored.

[truthteller234]

@Vegasrunner

well just because you don't like the numbers, it does not mean they're false. These are numbers complied over millions of people over many years.

Not like you, who have seen only probably 30 people

also, men need women more than women need men.

if a man wants to have kids, he can't have any as a single man.

so there goes to all the men who want to have kids... they can't have any

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 I think I understand your confusion. As mentioned b4 those number factor in divorced men as single. However men who never get married tend to be much happier.
I've slept with over 400 women and discussed this subject with 10's of thousands more when I was a VIP Host in Vegas.
Women need men more than women and its a proven fact. Think about it logically, if two men were beating you up and an unarmed women came to help you how safe would you feel?
Also a man doesn't need to be married to have kids so unfortunately you're incorrect about that as well.

[Bricealan]

@Vegasrunner Never ending responsibility for others

[Hagar88]

I dont know. Im married and far from miserable

[MrChinaski]

Living the grind that is human existence vs maintaining an upbeat Facebook life.

[truthteller234]

thats not actually true.

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 You're telling me how my friends feel?

[Imjustagirl1520]

actually it is, at least for women, single women r happier than married women

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 Yes agreed for women marriage is the most important thing they can do. I was speaking about for men. I dont have female friends because women dont offer any value to men as just friends.

[Imjustagirl1520]

what? i just said unmarried women are happier. Women r so much more than just wives. And no actually, married men are happier than single men, so wrong again. They need to give something for u to be friends with them? must mean u have no friends then. This is the reason ur single.

[HighValue]

@Imjustagirl1520 Unmarried women are so happy they cry into their phones and post hundreds of thousands of videos about how miserable their lives are. Ha ha. You are lying and trying to cope so hard.

[Imjustagirl1520]

://www. artsci. utoronto. ca/news/new-study-finds-single-women-are-happier-single-men

(add https before the :, i can't send links yet)

[Imjustagirl1520]

://www. womenshealthmag. com/relationships/a69094229/single-women-happiness/

Add https before the : again

[HighValue]

@Imjustagirl1520 Ha ha, you try to use a liberal feminist magazine filled with fallacies and outright lies as a source? Ha ha. That shows what you believe.

[Imjustagirl1520]

So find me any source that says otherwise then.

[Imjustagirl1520]

And by the way r u single?

[truthteller234]

@Vegasrunner

studies show that married men live longer lives than single men. married women live SHORTER lives than single women.

[truthteller234]

@Vegasrunner

i think it is because married women need to go through the trauma of giving birth then becoming a free maid and chef and nanny to him for the rest of her life. It takes a huge toll on women.
this is why women are no longer having kids nowadays.

[Imjustagirl1520]

@truthteller234
watch them tell you this is too woke and liberal feminist bullshit, while they have no sources to back up their end

[truthteller234]

@Imjustagirl1520

you don't have to worry about that. this guy is single for a reason. low quality dudes like him would never be able to find a wife.

[Imjustagirl1520]

@truthteller234 yeah these incels r weirdos

[truthteller234]

@Imjustagirl1520

99% of these guys are chronically single and can't get any woman. thats why they go on the internet hating on women

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 I think I understand your confusion. Single women are typically much unhappier especially the older they get and start seeing their friends get married and have kids. there's an entire video catalog of single women crying into their phones complaining about not being able to find a man. Im asking why my married male friends are so unhappy but my single friends are so happy. Im personally not single, I have about 3-5 different women I deal with and no I yes Anyone who wants to be a friend of mine needs to provide value, because I have respect for myself. Its unfortunate you're willing to be friends with anyone. Are you that desperate?

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 Not really. As was previously mentioned those studies factor divorced men in many of who live shorter lives then everyone because of the stress of dealing w/ women and having resources taken away. When you compare apples to apples single men leave much longer healthier lives. The fact that you're attempting to convince people otherwise only proves the point.

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 Good point. Those are all things that women need to do to feel a sense of self worth so it makes since what they're happy. Think about it how many videos do u see if marry women crying about being a mother vs single women crying about not being able to find a man. Have you been able to find a man you love admire and respect yet?

[Vegasrunner]

@truthteller234 Think I understand your confusion. If single men are happier why would any man take on the drama of having a wife?

[Imjustagirl1520]

@Vegasrunner i literally sent 2 links proving you otherwise.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 Now im confused. You have links explaining why my single friends are happy?

[Twodogs0525]

spectrumlocalnews.com/.../yes--married-people-really-are-happier-than-singles--study-says

[Twodogs0525]

greatergood.berkeley.edu/.../is_marriage_really_bad_for_womens_happiness

[Imjustagirl1520]

@Vegasrunner thats what i said, didn't i?

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 So why do you think they are so much happier than my married friend?

[Imjustagirl1520]

@Vegasrunner Women are happier single because they dont have to carry the burden of being a cook, mother and a cleaner + much more (in most cases and thats jst a fact) while men are happier married because they basically get a maid + nanny + wife, simple as that.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 I think I understand your confusion. I dont have any women friends there's not much benifit to it. All my froends are men so im asking why my married male friends are always miserable while my single friends are so happy?

[Imjustagirl1520]

@Vegasrunner i dont care about your friends, im talking about women in general. What do u benefit from male friends that u dont from female friends?
Its different for everybody, im simply sharing statistics. Maybe they just like being single.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 That was the original question and entire point of the post. If you didn't even read the post why are you commenting?

[Imjustagirl1520]

@Vegasrunner And i answered it, we’re all different, they might just like being single.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 Where? You shared a bunch of irrelevant information about women even after I told you my friends were me. Saying "we're all different" doesn't even make sense. If they were so different then why are all the married ones miserable and the single ones happy?

[Imjustagirl1520]

@Vegasrunner As I've said now, 3 times. We’re all different, they might like being single. Its as simple as that.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Its so sad i have to explain common sense to a grown man.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 And you thought that answer was worth a response? That doesn't mean anything nor does it address the question. Why are the married guys so miserable? Its fine that you liked the post but please think b4 commenting.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 Its unfortunate that you feel sad, however this is probably why you are providing emotional answers vs logical ones.

[Imjustagirl1520]

@Vegasrunner when did i say i wanted a response? It does tho. U have to be absolutely retarded to not understand that like come on. Married guys are miserable because they settle for women they dont want. When did i say i liked the post? How is saying ”we’re all different” emotional and not logical?

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 I think I understand your confusion. Im saying that the answer you provided was not worth it because it was an irrelevant response. Im not sure if you're not reading the post or if you struggle to read in general. These are my friends so no they didn't settle for women they dont want. At one time they all wanted these women which is why they chose to marry them. Even if they did it doesn't explain the correlation between why single men are so much happier. Saying "we're all different" is an emotional low IQ response because it deflects from the topic while providing a false sense of answering the question. Each individual is obviously "different" by definition so that doesn't really need to be said. Instead of looking at the problem and coming up with a tangible answer you provided an emotionally intangible one. Whats confusing is, if you dont know anything about thos subject why did you even respond?

[Imjustagirl1520]

How is it irrelevant if thats what u asked? You ask, i answer, simple.

Then maybe they’re just unhappy people, as i said everyones different, dont start being rude to me just because you’re not happy with the truth.
Okay so if im so dumb and emotional then, what is a perfect answer in ur eyes?

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 Well try to use logic vs emotion. I asked why are my married friends miserable while my single friends are happy? You responded "because people are different" You are correct it's an answer but im correct thats its irrelevant to the question asked.
The question draws a direct correlation between men being married and unhappy vs being single and happy. So any relevant answer needs to focus on the common denominator. Whats confusing is that if you dont have an answer why you feel the need to weigh in on this subject?

[Imjustagirl1520]

So what is the answer, im waitingggg

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 I posed the question because im seeking answers. If you dont know its fine, im just confused as to why you would weigh in on this subject.

[Imjustagirl1520]

I answered your question, it wasn't good enough and now apparently im dumb and immature, but u can't explain the perfect answer.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 I dont mind allowing you to answer im simply saying your answer doesn't address the question at hand.

[Imjustagirl1520]

You’re a hypocrite

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 Why do you feel like that?

[Imjustagirl1520]

Maybe reflect on what you’ve said and you’d know.

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 TY for sharing however thats just another random comment that has nothing to do w/ what were discussing. Perhaps this os the immaturity you were feeling?

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yeah right, bye u hypocrite

[Vegasrunner]

@Imjustagirl1520 Ok best of luck to you hopefully you learned something.

[queenofcardio]

Single and I'm enjoying my life

[fish5505_87]

Very good question!

[robocop666]

This is why married men see prostitutes