Guys, He said I miss you. Does he mean that he misses me as a person or just my body?

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I am in a relationship with this guy. The thing is he doesn’t really talk or engage much unless it’s sexual. He barely touches base with me, he barely texts me or talks on the phone. Emotionally, I feel like I’m in a relationship with myself most of the time. The sex is great but apart from that, he barely gives me any other type of interaction. Only if I pull away or need space does he start engaging. Things have been busy in my life this past week so I haven’t had much time for sex. Every day he pretty much says good morning and good night. He sometimes ask about my day or how I am but never follows up with anything and if he does and I reply, he goes radio silent again. I get tired of always messaging him and being the one to initiate conversation. While I was busy with work over the week, I didn’t engage with him much since I didn’t have the time nor the patience to chase him. So yesterday, I hadn’t heard from him all day and then he text me late at night and says I miss you. It made me feel good that he missed me. I said that I missed him too and hope that he was doing well and that we would see each other soon. But then I thought about it and realized that he didn’t need to miss me. If he wanted to, he could text me, he could call me, he could video chat with me, he could visit me, etc. He could make an effort so he would not have to miss me. I went to bed with these thoughts in my head. This morning, I woke up to a plethora of nude pictures from him. Then tonight he says I miss you and that he is at home in bed. I am wondering if am correct or wrong in assuming that he is only missing my body and not me as a person?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It sounds like your gut is already whispering the answer, his version might be more about physical access than emotional connection.

When someone truly misses you, they are curious about your mind, your day, and your presence not just your availability for sex.

Stay protected and Good luck. Your emotions and feelings matters.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

some better communication and expectations are in order. he may only want one thing and not want the effort that comes with the rest. So you'll have to stand up for yourself.

If you hand a child chocolate cake they are satiated, then they don't want to have dinner. Its the same thing... spoiling the brat.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to help you see the red flags clearly… even when the sex is blindingly good 😏

He doesn’t miss you, he misses access. If he truly missed YOU, there’d be calls, effort, emotional intimacy, not just “good morning” and nudes. That “I miss you” is basically a horny notification.

You’re not his girlfriend, you’re his situationship. You deserve more than being his sexy stress-relief.

Berethor · Answer

He miss your body, men are usually don't need a woman for anything besides sex.

Anonymous · Answer

I can tell you right now i miss her as a person. It hurts not hearing from her because i miss her a lot i miss seeing her i keep wondering what she's up to it's like i know she's been busy with work and stuff but i really miss her

qwerty2469 · Answer

I don't have enough of the story. I'm leaning 60/ 40. He misses that body 60, the rest 40. That's as good as your gonna get. Be happy

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

According to your story here, he wants some more pussy.

Guys, He said I miss you. Does he mean that he misses me as a person or just my body?

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If a guy says he misses you, does he miss your body/physically or you as a whole?

Guys, He said I miss you. Does he mean that he misses me as a person or just my body?

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If a guy says he misses you, does he miss your body/physically or you as a whole?

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