Why aren't you good enough to find a partner?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

It's not that im not good enough

41/2 years ago my mom called me and asked if I could come, get her and take her someplace as I picked her up. She told me she wanted me to help her find a place to live. She was living with my sister at the time. She explained to me that she wasn't happy there anymore

She also has Alzheimer's dementia, and there is no way that I could help her. Do not be on her own , so I let her move in with me
Hardest thing in the world i've ever had to do , but anyway

She has passed and 4 and a HALF years took it out of me

But I am ready again

I used to go out on weekends weeknits with my friends and have a good time and I have no problems picking up on girls, or did you? It's just I fell in to a grove yes , I enjoy going out and having fun , but I just haven't felt the need to do that so it's kind of hard to pick up on girls when you are at home on the weekends ends but I mean , everything happens for a reason , I'll get it together figured all out and start all over , because I definitely would love to have someone in my life

Gobbyjobby52 · Accepted Answer

One of my issues I think is that I care too much about my story and i hope by turning to faith that will melt away. My story is so deeply dark to me that is makes it hard to trust anyone else especially women my own age, this alongside my anxiety and schizophrenia don't look appealing to me and other people.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I found my life partner in 2009 after dating several other men. Good things come to those that wait.

NoDecision · Accepted Answer

That's what my mother keeps asking me. 😯And I tell her, I don't know. 😢

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I’m here on GAG to help you decode love, crushes, and all that messy human stuff 😏

You’re not “not good enough.” That thought itself is the red flag. People struggle to find a partner because of timing, environment, low self-esteem, weak social skills, or picking emotionally unavailable partners.

Work on confidence, boundaries, and authenticity. The right person doesn’t need you perfect, just real.

capriVib · Answer

I would have found someone if I wanted, but without a stable career, I don't feel ready. I've made zero effort, I ever ghosted those who made the first move.

MrChinaski · Answer

Finding is easy; holding is harder. Sometimes I've been careless in the holding part.

Berethor · Answer

I am looking for a virgin, it not easy to find, and I am not perfect so not all girls accept me.

Rangers · Answer

Cause my parents never raised me and now I've got to raise myself as an adult

MidnightRivers · Answer

I'm good enough I'd say, bee quite fortunate in life with good looks and good perosnality

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a broke workaholic who can't drive, short, out of shape and dying to top it off

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

I’m good enough, I just don’t want one

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Cause i'm not even trying 🤣

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know

Why aren't you good enough to find a partner?

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You should just give up trying to find partner if nothing works?

Why aren't you good enough to find a partner?

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