What goodbye hurts more someone who dies or someone that breaks up with you?

[Simslover92]

[ohsheeT]

Well. It depends or your beliefs
A person that dies it hurts but down deep you know that you will see them again .


A person that you break up with you walk away from and you grow and learn from that experience you move on but you know that you will also see them again and maybe
Depending on the time you had apart what you both learned you come back you meet again and maybe you both find love again.


It is written that your family and friends have been with you since the beginning of time every one you know one way or another

But if your talking about your break him moving on. And your still stuck not growning or experiencing new things in your life and your not really living or growing breathing fresh air

your changing all
of any out comes of the possibilities
In every manner. Even your health this life and
Or life

No matter what we do in life we are all going to fall down
It doesn't matter that we fell down or why

The only thing that matters is that we dont stay down
The only thing that matters is the moment we are down as we are standing back up jumping back we learn from it we brush ourselves off and keep going forward.


We are born and all have a destiny. we live life

everything we learn from the moment of being born to reaching our destiny. Is an experience a learning and growing becoming. Loving experience.

That you take with always and no matter what your going to get to your destiny

But what you leave behind because you choose not to get back up changes the out comes

I have to thank you for your question because

I've just reminded my self its the same thing with
Procrastinating.
You have a chance to do something but You procrastinate. And you lose that moment , you lose that chance to do something. You really wanted to do

[nolabels]

In my experience, I'd say that those two situations are too different to compare to each other in terms of which hurts more.
They're just different.

Several weeks ago, I lost my wife to brain cancer.

Comparing that to breakups from long ago is like apples and oranges.

Someone here on G@G whom I thought was a good friend blocked me last year without explanation.
That hurts.

My wife is gone; I can accept that.

My friend (?) here on G@G who blocked me?
That's different.
Why did he block me?
What happened?

[Simslover92]

I'm so sorry about your wife. That's awful.

[nolabels]

Thank you.

[Simslover92]

You're welcome.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Death of course…

Because when someone dies, you have to say goodbye to someone who you loved and who loved you, someone you chose and who chose you back everyday and never wanted to say goodbye.
It’s final and it’s clear in its finality.

The break up - even if you still have love and care for each other - always happens for a reason and while it hurts for a while, it’s with a person with whom you didn’t feel happy or who no longer felt happy with you.

It can be a hit to the ego, it can be the confusion to the mind and disappointment for the heart - all complex feelings, but that’s temporary - and sooner than you know you are happy again.

[7Phoenix7]

Death hurts the most.

When someone dies, the door is permanently closed.

You can’t call them even if you want to… you can’t ask the questions that were left unanswered… you can’t hear their voice or see them again.

With a breakup, as painful as it is, that person still exists somewhere in the world…There’s always the possibility of closure, forgiveness, or even crossing paths again someday…

Death takes that possibility away forever.

[TonyMetal___86]

Wise answer miss phoenix from bouvet island 😁

[7Phoenix7]

@TonyMetal___86 thank you 😊 lol

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to untangle messy feelings and make love stuff a little less confusing 💋

Both hurt, but in different ways. Death is final, heartbreaking, but you know it wasn’t a choice. A breakup can sting more sometimes because rejection, abandonment, ghosting, lovebombing then discard all crush your self-worth. With death you grieve. With breakups you grieve and question your value.

[Finchie40]

I would say someone dying would hurt more because they are gone forever , A break up can hurt as well , depending on how much you loved that person but they aren’t gone forever , unless you want them to be.. The thing is you can move on from a break up and reconcile with them if you choose to but someone that died you can’t do anything , so death is worst in my opinion

[Cyfris]

Could go either way. Depends on how you felt about them when they were alive or with you. When your sixth cousin twice removed dies who you always hated versus being broke up with by the woman of your dreams who you've spent half your life with seems pretty obvious.. Death being without choice versus choosing to break up is also a factor I would say... Now if we are talking about someone you love dearly dying is obviously more hurtful because you will never be able to have that love again where there could still at least be hope in a breakup..

[aaron13547]

For me death is easier then being broken up with. Death sucks but its out of our hands most of the time. We have to accept death. A break up you have to accept also but to me thats like telling me I didn't try hard enough. Im going to think about a break up like I should have done this or that different. Death is something we just have to accept. You can't have changed that, its a process of life out of our hands everyone experiences, no matter what we do.

When it comes to someone we didn't want to lose breaking up with or dieing to leave us. Break ups hurt more if you ask me. That I could have possibly prevented

[new-person]

In my experience the one you love breaking up with you hurts more then the one you love dying most of the time.

Yes it hurts when someone you love dies. But it is easier to live without the one you love when you know it is impossible to be with them any more because they are dead. In most cases you just need to feel at peace with them and know they had a good life.

But most of the time it is way harder when the one you love chooses not to be with you, because you know you still could be together now, and they are still on this earth without you.

[MontBlanc]

For me, a breakup can hurt more in a different way.

When someone dies, the pain is deep, but there is also a kind of closure. You know that the separation was never a choice.

But when someone leaves you while they are still alive, the goodbye feels different.

They are still somewhere in the world, still breathing, still living their life , just no longer with you.

Sometimes the hardest part is knowing that the person you once shared everything with has become a stranger you can no longer reach.

That kind of goodbye carries a quiet kind of pain.

[Keyboardkat]

Being dumped by someone you really love hurts more, because it is their choice to reject you. That is personal. Someone who dies (assuming they are not a suicide) did not, presumably, choose to do so. Either way, that person is lost to you forever. Being dumped by a loved person is experienced and processed by the brain as a death, and must be mourned and grieved for, just like an actual death, before you can heal.

[sage2021]

Since I have lived through both I would have to say when someone breaks up with me and doesn't look back.

But when my Patrick John died in 2023, he died suddenly and there weren't any hurtful words said between us. I can deal with that better because I know that he's in heaven and I will see him again.

[privateperson]

Who passes away. If someone breaks up with you then they’re on this planet but obviously I understand that depending on the breakup one may feel differently temporarily. In my experience the worst break ups have always turned into the greatest catalysts for my growth once you face the pain.

[JCT666]

I guess it depends on who. My ex girlfriend dumped me for another guy last year, I was sad for a while but then I was like "whatever".

But two weeks ago I had to put my dog to sleep, and I've been a bigger emotional mess since.

[Simslover92]

I'm so sorry.

[ElenaSeluna]

Death hurts because you lose someone you love
A breakup hurts because someone you love chose to leave…both are painful, but a breakup often hurts more emotionally because it can make you question yourself and the love you shared

[Shiprex]

Dies. I've had breakups and best friends as well dying. THOSE breakups are for a purpose but dying is forever.
I would say the passing of a dog in your arms is one kick in the guts when you're the one who made the decision for them.

[KimmySchmit]

Hard to say. My mother cheated and left my father. We talked about it one time, he described it as though my mother had died and he mourned her as though she had.

[Amy10223]

Definitely when someone dies, especially if it was a family you were close to. With a breakup you can heal with time, but the person who dies will never be seen again.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Bidding farewell to someone who's saying goodbye due to coming death is truly painful.

After death, there are no longer any more hellos and goodbyes.

[NoDecision]

You can always maintain communication with a breakup, and even make up and carry on your relationship. But when you are dead, it is finished and kaput and there is no coming back.

[spartan55]

Damn girl you're bummin me out here...😊
Having experienced both in significant form, I will say losing a loved one (s) is far worse.

[FreyaRed]

Someone you loved dies. Lovers go and new other ones come, they are exchengable

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Breakup for sure. It's not like they dies on purpose

[WhitneySnow]

Death or involuntary separation. A breakup you can always blame them.

[exitseven]

Definitely when somebody dies. There is no coming back from that.

[TonyMetal___86]

Both are intense but death is on another level because the person had left this earth without a come back!

[GrammariklyIncorrekt]

Both are tough fs. But I think the reality of death actually hits even harder

[Likes2drive]

Almost feels the same, but one is definitely permanent

[LC75LC71]

The breakup. You have to miss them while they are still around.

[Anonymous]

Probably the first one, but I never had a breakup, only unrequited love, several times, and it really hurts a lot.

[fish5505_87]

The breakup is more of short term thing, death is final!

[kerem2NT]

Death is more painful. Separation is a reversible situation.

[Nikki1989]

Death is far more traumatic.

[NathanDavis]

there's no comparison at all... lol

[Zionne]

someone who breaks up

[Still-alive]

Deaths of loved ones

[AgentG111]

Someone who passes on.

[dudeinohio]

Neither affect me too badly.

[888theGreat]

death is worse

[Ironco]

Definitely death, believe me...

[Butterfly38142]

Death of a loved one

[CubaPirate]

A death obviously

[khyabaldwin7]

Someone who dies for sure

[Jennz6]

Death hurts

[Anonymous]

A break up.

[oldman26]

Dies

[Jeff51]

Break ups