What darkest secret did you discover that instantly ended a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

I am not in a relationship, never was and have no plans to be in the next 20+ years because being in a relationship places way too many constraints on my life. I like my life to be simple and uncomplicated, which is certainly not the case when you are in a relationship, due to the fact that you have to "perform" or do things you disapprove, just to satisfy the partner.

Now, I would consider any secret that the person refrains from telling me during the first meeting, such as whether he is an addict of some kind, does drugs, has a criminal record or has been sentenced in the past. Also a total no go would be if he has a body count higher than 0.

I do not tolerate people that lie and failure to be totally honest during the first date would be an immediate end of a potential relationship, because you bet that I would ask all those questions to start with.

[MrChinaski]

Autism.

I'm not saying that makes me a good person. The relationship was close enough that it would have been appropriate to discuss, rather than conceal. It felt like betrayal.

Feel free to throw rotten tomatoes. It's not my proudest moment. I'm just being honest.

[Cyfris]

No shame in sexual preference pal.

[Cyfris]

Pregnant with a child that wasn't mine even though it was claimed to be. God bless paternity tests.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships and expose the red flags people ignore way too long 😉

One client found out her “boyfriend” actually had a secret fiancée in another city. Double life, double lovebombing, double ghosting waiting to happen. Wedding date set, families involved, the whole thing. She dumped him on the spot, blocked everywhere, and healed like a queen. Some secrets aren’t mistakes, they’re character.