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Boyfriend’s mom hates me over caste and rumors—should I meet her?

So i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years, we both are from indian family but he is a different caste. So last year his mom found out about us and it was a big issue in his houshold they argued cried everthing and then his mom called me saying that stay away from my son till he do something in his life and dont call till then on his number. And i said nothing, we do meet sometimes and do stay with him sometimes but his mom always doubt that he is with me or talk to me , always Face time where he is. by the way He do always call her everyday but still she dont believe him , i dont know what is her problem. When we meet some of his relative may have seen us they went to their house and said your son was with this girl with wearing a shorts was so short and sleeveless infact i have never worn that but they stress the situation more. His dad also know about us but he is not against it and ask him do u like her then he said yes i only love her and will only marry her. His father accepts us but his mom hasn't. One day i heard their conversation when he was on phone with both his parents. His father was advicing him to study and do something first then marry me he have no problem and said that she can come meet u sometimes but this tiggers his mom and she said noo if he meet her now i will oil her up and then set her on fire and then she laughs. I didn't find this funny it creeps me up then how can i live with this kind of mother in law in future who said this jokingly. Everyone is chill accepts her , she always taunt me when he talk to her saying this girl has ruined ur life and will, u always talk to her. But she never have met me once. And now she demands to meet me but i dont wanna met her and im very afraid after i heard those conversation. But one thing is good that he always takes stand for me infront of her mom and everyone never let her bad mouth about me , maybe thats why she hate me? i dont know what to do please guys help me out.

Boyfriend’s mom hates me over caste and rumors—should I meet her?
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